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15 Year old and might be Pregnant . Please HELP
I have been cramping for the past week in a half, but no period. I took a Test Saturday but it says negative. Am I testing to early? Im really scared and I need answers? I dont want to say anything to my Boyfriend until I find out or want to tell me parents either. I am just having cramps lower front area and both sides, but no period yet. This has been going on for almost 2 weeks. Any advice?
Oh and you need to discuss this with whoever you are having sex with chances are that they arent ready to be a father. I have discussed this with my boyfriend and he is prepared to get married if i get pregnant. Just think about whatt you are doing and how it will effect others and be responsible and use protection and try to get on the pill!
honey you can not be ready to be a mom at 15. how do you plan on say paying for everything getting to and from the doctor??? in 19 and in a steady relationship and im not ready to be a mother! You cant even drive leaglly by yourself! Grow up...have your life...meet someone you want to marry...then think about having a baby. don't rush into things you are too young to have a baby.
I'm 36 and I am married and about to have our 3rd child. I remember having scares when I was younger and thank goodness I did not get pregnant especially because none of the people that I was with stayed in my life very long.
Things change so quickly when you are younger that it is hard to guarantee where your emotions will be from day to day let alone your stability to parent.
Things change so quickly when you are younger that it is hard to guarantee where your emotions will be from day to day let alone your stability to parent.
Nobody is going to keep fingers crossed for a 15 year old to be pregnant.
Why on earth would you WANT to be pregnant at 15? Are at all prepared? Are you financially stable? Do you have a job? How do you plan on working full time to get money for the baby and finishing school? How do you plan on attending college? What about child care? Are you 1,00,000% sure the father isn't going to run for the hills? Even if he does say he'll stay, plan on being a single mother.
The statistics are not in your favor. So my fingers are crossed, for your sake and the sake of a child, that you are not pregnant.
I was 23 when I had my children and let me tell you, I was financially stable, married and ready for a child. It was hard. I didn't have to worry about finishing school, day care or the added health risks a teenager has to worry about and it was hard. My kids are 3 now and it's still hard.
Why on earth would you WANT to be pregnant at 15? Are at all prepared? Are you financially stable? Do you have a job? How do you plan on working full time to get money for the baby and finishing school? How do you plan on attending college? What about child care? Are you 1,00,000% sure the father isn't going to run for the hills? Even if he does say he'll stay, plan on being a single mother.
The statistics are not in your favor. So my fingers are crossed, for your sake and the sake of a child, that you are not pregnant.
I was 23 when I had my children and let me tell you, I was financially stable, married and ready for a child. It was hard. I didn't have to worry about finishing school, day care or the added health risks a teenager has to worry about and it was hard. My kids are 3 now and it's still hard.
i dont want to sound rude by any means but please explain to me why you would want to be a mother at such a young age. i was 19 when i had my son and before i got pregnant i was doing all i could at that point not to get pregnant, unfourtunately mistakes happen and dont get me wrong i love my son more then anything but it was not easy to get to the point i am at in my life. my life was a struggle, and im not going to lie it still is a struggle. i am 29yrs old now with still only one child who is now 9 yrs, i am married but not to his father since his father bailed right away. i am just now for the first time able to go back to school to further my education, is that really the way u want to remember ur childhood? all the friends u think u have now will not be there later becuz they do not want to put there plans on hold because u have a baby. having a baby is a big responsibility, and i really think you should try to wait untill u finish school at least. have u ever watched the show teen mom? well i watch it every week and while i sit and watch it i think of how wrong that show is! thwy show these girls all living the high life and doing great well here is a news flash to all viewers of that show the cameras only show what they want us to believe and believe me having a baby is not as easy as they make it look! i am sorry if any of this sounds harsh but please make the right choice if u r not pregnant then take it as a good thing and complete school and wait until u have accomplished everything in ur life that u wanted to! good luck with everything, have a great day
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Rose, you're right, it IS crazy. You're just 15, and thankfully it sounds like you're not pregnant since you're two weeks overdue for your period and are still testing negative.
Once this resolves, please choose a reliable form of birth control until you are an adult and can make an adult decision whether to have a child.
Once this resolves, please choose a reliable form of birth control until you are an adult and can make an adult decision whether to have a child.
an over due period can also be due to stress. so u can either go to ur doctor or wait another week or so and re-test. good luck with everything.
I had sex on the 16th he said he accidently came inside me. Its been two weeks and I have taken 4 pregnancy test and they are all negative. Im very nervous and scared. Am I doing the test too early? Today would of been 2 weeks and i testing to early? or should I wait longer?
There are a lot of women that experience cycle changes during the warmer months or during the seasons. Especially if you are worried about being pregnant and are stressed because of other factors in your life too this can prolong your period. Definitely keep us posted and let us know how everything goes, what was your last menstrual cycle?
If you're not getting your period and negative pregnancy tests, you should go to the doctor for a blood test. So you're going to have to tell your parents.
It could just be your period is late, if you are pregnant your body may not be producing enough Hcg right now to get a positive or there could be something medically wrong.
Also, if you are sexually active and not pregnant it would be wise to get on birth control. Not to mention once you become sexually active you're supposed to start seeing a gynecologist for yearly exams and pap smears to be sure that the reproductive organs are functioning properly and you're not getting infections.
It could just be your period is late, if you are pregnant your body may not be producing enough Hcg right now to get a positive or there could be something medically wrong.
Also, if you are sexually active and not pregnant it would be wise to get on birth control. Not to mention once you become sexually active you're supposed to start seeing a gynecologist for yearly exams and pap smears to be sure that the reproductive organs are functioning properly and you're not getting infections.
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