Very worried about my daughter

[rana64]

I have a 14 year old daughter who decide to make the big mistake to have sex with a boyfriend, she said the codom broke but she is not sure when, now she have pain in a lower back and headeach and dizzines,also she have some pain in the ovaries,i want to know anybodys opinion on this situation, how is the minimum i have to wait to do the pregnancy test and also she is takin, abilify, lamictal and buspar, please tell mewhat you think, anybody...thanks

[jo929]

I suggest that a Dr see her. and i also would advise you to see about getting her some kind of birth control they have these shots one can take, and they last 2 years i think, it is so dangerous to have sex these days without protection also i do not think children were meant to have children, try and talk with her and tell her sex is a serious step to take at any age especially before ,marriage, men seldom marry someone that  is easy  especially when they can get what they want\ so easy I am sorry that you are having this problem, and will hope that she is ok, but she needs to be watched more carefully she is still a child   luck  jo

[kllmfae]

i just wanted to say congratulations on bringing up a daughter that is so open with you. it is very rare these days

[heatherlynn22]

i'll keep her in my prayers and good luck.if she is pregnant being bulimic and anorexic is NOT good and she's going to need to eat (and keep it down, except for the times with morning sickness) in order to have a healthy pregnancy and baby.

[rana64]

thanks for your answer. she has her period every two months because she is bulimic and anorexic, she ad sex a week ago, i had made the doctors appoiment to see what is happening...pray for her please,her name is Anja, most thatshe dont have any SDT...thanks

[heatherlynn22]

how long ago did she have sex? when is her period due? you can wait 3-7 days after her period is late (if it is) and have her take an hpt to get the most accurate result or take her to an ob/gyn (which she should go to anyways now that she is sexually active to get a gynecological exam and pap smear done...possibly get on b/c so you don't have any pregnancy scares in the future if she isn't pregnant) for a bloodtest.

remember that a lot of early pregnancy symptoms are the same as pms symptoms so don't go based on that alone.