Chances of Pregnancy? Please read and help me out (Worried!)

[worried202020]

PLEASE READ EVEN IF IT'S LONG TO YOU, HELP ME OUT :(


So this is what happened. I was fooling around with my boyfriend the other day, and i was giving him a handjob . i had oil on my hands and his penis as i wanted to lubricate it., but i'm not sure if the oil was all over my hands as well as my fingertips.  (there was no penetration whatsoever)

Midway through the act, i really wanted to pee so i went to the toilet. as i was in a hurry, i actually forgot to wash my hands before taking off my undies and pants to pee (in a squatting position). The thing i'm worried about is that i forgot if after peeing, did my fingers touch the lip of my vagina or not. And if i did, what are the chances of pregnancy if my fingertips have precum from the act i was doing with my boyfriend? Prior to peeing, i touched many things including stripping my pants,undies, turning on the lights, etc before actually peeing.

I know this may sound silly but i'm really concerned. please enlighten me!

[worried202020]

bump !

[worried202020]

thank you clysta. i was certain though i touched several stuff before i urinate, and i had oil on my hands. so hopefully all these was enough to ward off any possible sperm on my fingertips

[Clysta]

Do you know for sure you are? The only way to know 100% is by ovulation kits and charting/tracking. Online calanders can be off and you can easily ovulate soon or late. Sperm can survive that long, but this is still if they even managed to get in you. Exposed to the air they have a very short life span. You honestly have nothing to worry about.

[worried202020]

thats exactly what i'm worried about, as i'm ovulating around that period of time :(
and i heard sperm can last 5-7 days in the body right.

argh, seriously this is so taxing. thanks for ur help !

[Clysta]

Not in all cases. You're looking into this wayyyy too much. Please try not to worry about it. Because this has seemed to cause you so much fear about it, I'd advise you to make sure you're really ready for sexual activity. Even when a couple is actively trying to conceive a baby and has intercourse on a womens most fertile days they only have a 25% chance of pregnancy. You didn't even do that. They would have to be super sperm to survive and if they did somehow manage to get into you, then you would have to have been ovulating for pregnancy to even occur.

[worried202020]

ya i have been having too many wild thoughts :(

Now i'm even worried if my period does come, it's not a regular one but an implantation bleeding :(:(

because, implantation bleedinf often coincides with your regular menstruation dates right?

[DellaKemp]

I have never heard of women getting pregnant from what you describing. you can go and talk to adr and get medical stats if that will help calm you, but you have calm down and not stress over it. When is you period due? Wait till then. Don't stress though cause that can delay your period send even more confusion your way.

[Clysta]

Not sure. I've never heard of a female getting pregnant from this sort of activity before. Worry though over something like this can delay your period though, which in turn will cause more stress. Try not to freak out about it. Your odds of pregnancy are quite slim, if they're even there.

[worried202020]

yeah thanks for the reply

still i'm really worried, as im really not ready for a pregnancy or to deal with it. i told myself never to engage in any form of penetration..but this really made me worry..

if my hands really have precum on it and i did touch the outside of my vagina right after urinating (2mins after i last touched my bf's penis), will the remaining wet urine sort of nutralize any possible precum or something like that?

sorry as i'm still very ill-infomed. thanks for all the help guys!

[Clysta]

Implantation bleeding should be light spotting, last a few hours to a few days, and should not require any form of pad. Honestly, I would be shocked to hear if you got pregnant from that. The odds are just too low to even worry about it.

[worried202020]

thanks ZOey. Also, mind answering how do i tell implantation bleeding from a normal period?

[zOey260495]

I have been in that position and I worried a lot, but it was too late to do anything. I found out the chances of this happening were really low. My period was delayed and this worried me even more, but the reason it was delayed was because of stress & worry. You will be fine

[worried202020]

thanks for your reply, appreciate it really.

but it could still occur right..? since i touched his penis which might have precum on it (he usually has precum before ejaculation) and went to urine. After urinating, my fingertips might have brushed off the lips of my vagina

[DellaKemp]

Hun, the chances of pregnancy are really low since there was no penetration.