HELP PLEASE! Missed periods, still a virgin, 14 years old...what's going on?

[Chelseacarroll]

Okay, well I'm a 14 year old girl and I missed my last period. It worried me alot even though I've never had sex. Now, my period is really late and I'm really scared and stressed. I've had a boyfriend for 3 months and I really love him, but I DO NOT let him do anything that I'm not ready for. So I'm still a virgin, and I don't plan on that changing any time soon, but anyway, I don't know what's going on. I'm afraid to tell him or my mom, because I know my mom will immediately start accusing me of being I ginormous ***** and destroying my purity WHICH I HAVEN'T DONE. The most I've done is wrapped my legs around his waist while we were in a pool. In swimsuits. So I don't think anything could've happened there...but anyway, I really need some help here. I'm scared beyond words, you guys. Please answer as soon as possible. Thank you.
UPDATE
Alright, well I took a pregnancy test today to see if I'm pregnant because I missed my period last month and I should've started yesterday but I haven't. I'm 14 and a virgin, but I've been showing some signs of pregnancy and I'm very, very scared and paranoid. I just wanted to be sure. I took one today and it said it was negative. It recommended to take it in the morning I think, but it was around 10:00 or 11:00 pm. It's been around a month since my last period should've started. I've been eating a lot less lately and I've been very stressed. I woke up with a headache yesterday and last month my stomach was cramping like period cramps. My breasts might've grown a little bit but they're not sore at all. I've been looking kinda bloated lately, but it might just be me. I know I haven't had sex, but vaginas are weird and complicated, y'know? The most "sexual" thing I ever did with my boyfriend was wrap my legs around his waist in a pool while he carried me around. In our swimsuits. And I'm PRETTY SURE he didn't ***...because we weren't really doing anything besides kissing and floating around at a waterpark. I would've known? Right? I dunno, I guess there's a lot that I still don't know. But like I said, it's been around a month and I took my pregnancy test today. I didn't really have to pee so it took a while and I was rushed to try to force it out, which is pretty impossible to do when you're peeing. I touched the absorbent part of the test for less than a second before I used it. Would this change the result? Is there anything else I should do? I feel like I'm going to miss this period as well. Should I go to a doctor? What are the odds of a false negative? BECAUSE I REALLY NEED TO KNOW. It's stressing me out so much and I'm so scared.
PS: sorry if its too much information, but I have masturbated (well not really, just feeling around) before, and I don't think my hymen could've broke, but that was a while ago.
PPS: when I missed my period the first time,I put a tampon in just to be sure, and when I took it out, it had a little light brown/pinkish stuff on it, but then that was it. I felt sick today, but I think it was just from the nerves when I told my mom...because she jumped to conclusions...

[JaceBane]

Calm down, you aren’t pregnant. You’re just having irregular periods. That is normal. When did you start getting your periods? If it was only this year, then you don’t have anything to worry about. If it was a year ago, then you’re probably still good. If not, it might be what you’re eating or even what you’re doing in school. Stress could do it. It could be anything but I highly doubt you’re pregnant because you said you were a virgin.

[MadisonHa]

Omg, thanks becouse i am having the same problem

[Laurenbean]

Thank you so much, I am now going through the same problem, I just started mine this year!

[Audrey12duhh]

Hey I’m 13 and I’m a virgin and I haven’t had my period in a month and I’m having cramps and all of that what do I do ???  

[Clofer]

I’m 17 I’m a Virgin it’s been a month since I had my period but I feel like I’m going to throw up and I feel like I have cramps what’s going on

[Ray_Bae]

All of you guys chill. Im 15 and its totally normal to be late. You know you can track when your next period will be

[Ray_Bae]

All you have to do is count 28 days ahead (a typical cycle.)

[Ray_Bae]

Dont worry if it's late. I've had mine for almost 5 years and it still skips around. If your a virgin you can't be pregnant unless your the next Mary. Which I doubt.

[Georgia_brandrick]

I’m 14 and this has happened to me, my mum said it was fine for it to happen. My mum said it’s changing your hormones so you will come on late, when you know your hormones are changing you get spots under your chin and on your back

[Pipstermay]

My mum says that it’s okay to miss a few months if you’re below 18, apparently it will come back when it’s ready. Mine is late for 11 days now! I’m 13, a virgin.

[Edi_h]

Me too im 12 and my period is only a week late but I’m still worried and I’m a virgin what do I do!?!?

[KImberly1312]

That’s exactly what’s happening to me!! I am also a virgin! Plz help

[Kat239]

Same, although I'm 13 and haven't had it for like a month and a half, and the month I did have it it was like 2 weeks late so I looked on here bc I was getting nervous, also a virgin still having really bad cramps, they're worse then they are when I'm on it

[meg12234]

hey how many months can you go with out your period??????

[Zhanestar22]

Same is happening to me its been a year tho and i still haven't had my period and im scared

[JustAPersonTryingToHelp]

Sometimes you dont get it for awhile if your seriously stressed or nervous. I know. My cousin had that happen to her for like a few months too.

[CassieHeckman]

I'm 17 and I'm really nervous because I have not had a period sense September and it's January. I am getting really scared. I don't want to tell anyone about it but I might have to if I don't get it this month! Please I need advice! Also I know I'm not pregnant because I am still a virgin!

[CassieHeckman]

Im 17 and Im really nervous because I have not had a period sense September and its January. I am getting really scared. I dont want to tell anyone about it but I might have to if I dont get it this month! Please I need advice! Also I know Im not pregnant because I am still a virgin!

[Bella_Wade]

Don't worry. It's normal, and it will sometimes skip a month or two. Just be happy that you don't have to deal with it that month. Plus, if you haven't had sex, you definitely are NOT pregnant. You need the male's sperm, and if you haven't EVER had sex, then it's not possible for you to be pregnant.

[TheAnswerKey]

This answer is for everyone in this situation the liquids are vaginal discharge are keeping the vaginal clean and making sure it's not dry. The female menstrual cycle isn't completely normal until age 20 your period may be missed a month or 2 it's completely normal and healthy..

[Ayanabelton701]

Omg same except I'm 13 years old. I'm really scared. I have this app to track my period and it says I'm 6 days late!! I started my period May 9th and it was definitely my period, stomach cramps, bloating, mood swings, bleeding. And now it's a month and 6 days later and I still haven't started it! I told my mom and she said it's ok because when she first started she didn't always get her period every month. I still don't know if she was just trying to make up something to make me feel less scared. I really want to go to the doctor just to be sure, but before I do I want to see if it's really needed for me to go to the doctor? Please reply ASAP! Really really scared. I'm definitely not pregnant. I'm a virgin and I've never even had a boyfriend before, so that can't be it! Is there something wrong with me?

[Bm190615]

Okay hi I;m the same. Me and my boyfriend have done things just not sex and I am 100% a virgin his penis has never even been near me just his hand. But Im really worried as it has been nearly 2 months and the past 3 days IVe felt really sick and periody but still nothing has happened

[Dove_Bird]

I don;t have an answer but I;m 12 I haven;t had my period for 2 months now green/yellow discharge the Oder kinda spells like copper. I havent had sex cause duh Im twelve wth plus Im lesbian so why would I have sex?? The only sexual thing Ive done was airhumped my blanket but I did this for a while but stopped once I started my period then just randomly I started missing my periods and I;ve looked into it and it might be an infection witch I hope it isnt or it could just be late.. but I dont do sports Im not stressed and I just don&t know if I dont have it for 4 months even though I dontwant to Im gonna tell my mom

[CherryPug]

Me too!! Im a 13 year old girl and my expected day of my period is 1 weeks late almost 2 weeks!! Im still a virgin and i dont have boyfriend but im not planning to after college.. I really scared and i have told my mom and dad about this.. Im definetly NOT pregnant! Whats happening? And im having these weird slimey green things that comes out a litle intead of white or period..

[Mycrazylife14]

I know how you feel Im in the same boat but Ive been looking into it and stress sports loss in weight and even just genetic makeup can cause it Im a tad worried but Ill wait a bit longer if it doesnt come after 3-4 months TELL YOUR MOM  as it could be something very serious

[imheretohelp101]

ask your mom if she had her period every month . if you mom didn't have it every month you could just be like her and not have it every month

[Helooooooonsnns]

I'm a virgin I hadn't have my period well I did but for only two days help? It wasn't heavy and not light

[Girlwhoworried11]

Me too, can someone help us. I'm scared I keep peeing randomly as well and white stuff is coming on my pants ALOT. I lied to my friends about a wet spot saying it was my period when it was the white stuff seeping through. No cramps just blotting and no throwing up but the blottings fading so I don't think I'm pregnant. I'm a Definite virgin I never had sex neither let someone touch me anywhere near that area not anyoneee. Help PLEASE

[sophierose019]

The white stuff is the vagina cleaning itself but this all is sounding exactly like what's happening to me right now omg

[Very_happy_man]

Im a boy sooo im just taking all this it but sounds to me like your scared so here is somthing inspirational your gonna be all right bro

[Jarysuarez]

What's wrong if u haven't got your period in 2months and your virgin

[Abby8123]

Hi, my name is Abby and I'm turning  14 next month. Its December and I haven't had my period since the summer. I PMS every month but no period comes. I'm starting to worry that there is something wrong with me. Ive always had irregular periods for 2 years. Im scared to tell my mom because she might take me to the doctor and i don't want people to look at me down there.  So when my mom gets her period, i wait for mine since I'm in sync with her. But my period never comes. Will my period permanently stop? If you can help email me ***@**** thanks

[trishahernandez]

me too oh my gosh what can i do

[Iggy313]

I'm 14 and I missed 2 periods I'm a virgin

[Sarah_markovx]

Same I'm 14 my period was supost to come yesterday the 14th, I've had my period for 3 months but this is the first I've missed it I've never ever ever had sex in my life so idk what could cause it, I've got the cramps tho and this is the worst I've had cramps. I've not been eating as much recently as I just got braces so I couldn't eat as much but I'm back to normal eating now I'm really scared does anyone have any idea what this could be if you know please reply :)

[flowers_for_mel]

im going through the same thing idk what to do

[Tori_b_]

Ok so help me my period is 45 days late and the only sexual thing I've done is kiss someone once and I know that does nothing so help me I'm a virgin and I'm 45 days late plz answer quickly I'm very scared

[dierr]

I need help I;ll be fifteen next month and I started my period when I had just turned 13 but i have not had my period for over a year and Ive never fooled around. When I was a baby I had to have my uterus stretched but I do t know if that would affect me now please help

[Vanessa__22]

I have missed almost 2 months of my period and i haven't had sex! if u have answers for me please shoot me a text at 717-269-6115

[The_lorin]

Dont worry about it. Eating less and stress can cause late periods mine is 19 days late and I've never had sex..... I have a lot of assignments due next week and its stressing me out and when Im stressed I tend to eat a lot less. So dont worry about it, you stressing is making it worse and when you are young you tend to miss your periods for a few months so its natural

[misech]

Omg same with me! Please comment back if you figured out what was wrong. Thank you!!

[Alittleditsy]

Ur not