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Pre-ejaculation case
So today me and my girl friend were fooling around. I did not bring a condom today because I did not expect on having sex that today. We were both very aroused (horny) and so we decided to "stick it in just once."
What had happened was, I inserted my penis into her with no protection. (It was kinda hard to insert but the head of my penis kept rubbing around because it was kinda dry until some Silvia came in).
We had done this before long ago but she was never pregnant.
The only thing that concerns me is that; when my penis entered her, she began humping me (she was on top) and I did not expect that she would do that nor did I stop it (didnt want toooo =/ ). During this process (which only lasted not even a minute. Maybe not even 30 seconds. SHORT Duration), I began to feel like I was going to ejaculate. So I pushed her off and then I grabbed my penis with my hand. Then I cummed on my hand after I grabbed it 5 secounds later. (What this means that, I pulled it out, then i grabbed it with my hand, then about 5 seconds later I cummed.) Im pretty sure I did not *** inside her.
So this leads me to this...
The fluid that exerts (comes out) of the penis BEFORE sperm ejaculation; does that fluid carry sperm? Cause I went around some websites and it says that the fluid before ejaculation does NOT carry sperm.
Quote "...pre-ejaculatory fluid is mostly produced by the Cowper’s (bulbourethral) glands. Its primary function is to neutralize the hostile vaginal... It usually does not contain spermatozoids.."
"But if ejaculation occurred before the pre-ejaculatory fluid was produced, spermatozoids might have stayed behind and might be found in the pre-ejaculatory fluid. Therefore, conception is possible, although much less probable than with ejaculation.
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"http://pregnancy.ehealthforum.com/health/pre-ejaculation-fluid-and-the-likelihood-of-pregnancy-t190248-a1.html"
I did not ejaculate and sperm before we did this but I know for a fact that the fluid produced before ejaculation was there. Around. She was also very "wet" and aroused producing a very moist environment. Silvia was also in and around her vagina increase moisture.
My penis was also half hard. Meaning, I was aroused my my penis did not rise to the fullest size. HALF hard.
She also went to go pee about 5 minutes later? Maybe less but no more less then 5 minutes.
So can she be pregnant?
What had happened was, I inserted my penis into her with no protection. (It was kinda hard to insert but the head of my penis kept rubbing around because it was kinda dry until some Silvia came in).
We had done this before long ago but she was never pregnant.
The only thing that concerns me is that; when my penis entered her, she began humping me (she was on top) and I did not expect that she would do that nor did I stop it (didnt want toooo =/ ). During this process (which only lasted not even a minute. Maybe not even 30 seconds. SHORT Duration), I began to feel like I was going to ejaculate. So I pushed her off and then I grabbed my penis with my hand. Then I cummed on my hand after I grabbed it 5 secounds later. (What this means that, I pulled it out, then i grabbed it with my hand, then about 5 seconds later I cummed.) Im pretty sure I did not *** inside her.
So this leads me to this...
The fluid that exerts (comes out) of the penis BEFORE sperm ejaculation; does that fluid carry sperm? Cause I went around some websites and it says that the fluid before ejaculation does NOT carry sperm.
Quote "...pre-ejaculatory fluid is mostly produced by the Cowper’s (bulbourethral) glands. Its primary function is to neutralize the hostile vaginal... It usually does not contain spermatozoids.."
"But if ejaculation occurred before the pre-ejaculatory fluid was produced, spermatozoids might have stayed behind and might be found in the pre-ejaculatory fluid. Therefore, conception is possible, although much less probable than with ejaculation.
"
"http://pregnancy.ehealthforum.com/health/pre-ejaculation-fluid-and-the-likelihood-of-pregnancy-t190248-a1.html"
I did not ejaculate and sperm before we did this but I know for a fact that the fluid produced before ejaculation was there. Around. She was also very "wet" and aroused producing a very moist environment. Silvia was also in and around her vagina increase moisture.
My penis was also half hard. Meaning, I was aroused my my penis did not rise to the fullest size. HALF hard.
She also went to go pee about 5 minutes later? Maybe less but no more less then 5 minutes.
So can she be pregnant?
me and my ex gf had sex about two months ago maybe a lil more. everytime we used a condom and she has birthcontrol and uses it correctly. we had sex one time for a few min without a condom and she is 2 months late with her period, what is the likely hood of her being pregnant? plz i am nervous:(
so how are you and your gf now? im facing the same problem as you were facing last year :/
it sounds good. as long as it's a normal period (for her) you guys are good to go. make sure you use condoms even if it's for a few seconds. next time you may not be so lucky.
good luck!
good luck!
Well, she told me after she got home from school. She said its kinda of a heavy day, not so heavy but in the middle. And shes cramping.
So this is good?
We have a conclusion Heatherlynn22?
So this is good?
We have a conclusion Heatherlynn22?
it can all depend. if it's a normal period she's not pregnant. if it's just spotting it's still possible. there are some women who spot (or bleed lightly) during the first trimester. she's just going to have to wait and take a test if this is not a normal period. (normal for her)
Oh I made a mistake.
She wiped with toilet paper and noticed a small reddish stuff on the paper. Then she decided to wear a panty liner. Then she went to pee again (she is peeing alot cause she is sick and drinking lots of fluids and Vitiman C) and she said her panty liner was all in bed. (heavy or light idk).
She wiped with toilet paper and noticed a small reddish stuff on the paper. Then she decided to wear a panty liner. Then she went to pee again (she is peeing alot cause she is sick and drinking lots of fluids and Vitiman C) and she said her panty liner was all in bed. (heavy or light idk).
True, pee comes out of... this flap? I dont remember the name but my gf read it in some magazine that it helps to go pee to kill sperm. (guess thats for guys only).
The sickness signs I was just wondering cause you never know? A womens body is a mystery when it comes to these things... Least to me.. lol
Anyways, She just told me that she GOT HER PERIOD earlier around 8-10 California time. She told me she was wear a pantyliner (lol? idk what that is) cause before she went to go pee and she wiped and she noticed small reddish mark on the toilet paper she wiped with? Something like that lol.
Again, she got her period today. The day AFTER intercourse.
Is that good? or still unable to draw a conclusion?
I figured "she got her period! hurray!" but... she told me that even if she got her period, its to "soon" so her body does not recognize it. Is this TRUE?
I would also like to say Thank You in advance for helping me and replying Heathlynn =))
The sickness signs I was just wondering cause you never know? A womens body is a mystery when it comes to these things... Least to me.. lol
Anyways, She just told me that she GOT HER PERIOD earlier around 8-10 California time. She told me she was wear a pantyliner (lol? idk what that is) cause before she went to go pee and she wiped and she noticed small reddish mark on the toilet paper she wiped with? Something like that lol.
Again, she got her period today. The day AFTER intercourse.
Is that good? or still unable to draw a conclusion?
I figured "she got her period! hurray!" but... she told me that even if she got her period, its to "soon" so her body does not recognize it. Is this TRUE?
I would also like to say Thank You in advance for helping me and replying Heathlynn =))
you have no choice but to wait. that's how long it takes for the hcg levels to build up in a womans body if she is pregnant.
to help you calculate it we would have to have the dates of her periods for the last 3-6 months to get it as accurate as possible. that is something EVERY woman should keep track of no matter how old they are. (not just for those who are trying to get pregnant....it helps not have period accidents or be surprised and be caught by aunt flow without a pad or tampon. i learned that by 14 thank god)
sore throat is not really a sign of pregnancy. she could just be getting sick. don't associate every hiccup and fart as a sign of pregnancy (and no those are not signs of pregnancy). a lot of early pregnancy symptoms are the same as pms symptoms.
going pee does nothing. if there were sperm in her vagina they headed north before she went pee. (which sperm does not go to the same hole where urine comes out. urine comes out of an entirely different hole.)
to help you calculate it we would have to have the dates of her periods for the last 3-6 months to get it as accurate as possible. that is something EVERY woman should keep track of no matter how old they are. (not just for those who are trying to get pregnant....it helps not have period accidents or be surprised and be caught by aunt flow without a pad or tampon. i learned that by 14 thank god)
sore throat is not really a sign of pregnancy. she could just be getting sick. don't associate every hiccup and fart as a sign of pregnancy (and no those are not signs of pregnancy). a lot of early pregnancy symptoms are the same as pms symptoms.
going pee does nothing. if there were sperm in her vagina they headed north before she went pee. (which sperm does not go to the same hole where urine comes out. urine comes out of an entirely different hole.)
Hmm... Im not really sure... I understand that I have to wait for the day of a predicted missed period and use a preg test. But Im not that patient you know? Im 17 and it keeps running in my mind.
I guess there is nothing else to do?
Unless there is some kinda other plan to determine the conclusion?
I mean we were only doing it for no more then 30 seconds.
(I do know that the day of her last period STARTED on August 18-19th.)
And today Is September 13th... So if heatherlynn22 or any other female may do the calculating of the women cycles for me? ?? lol. The whole calculating and cycles and days is all really confusing to me lol.
(BTW) she just told me she is sick.. sore throat and headache. She said that she was kinda getting a sore throat when I saw her yesterday BEFORE we did anything. So idk if that would matter if she was sick and it had anything to go with pregnantcy.
AND ALSO. Keep in mind she did go pee afterwards. After intercourse, she went to go pee like... maybe 5 mins later?
I guess there is nothing else to do?
Unless there is some kinda other plan to determine the conclusion?
I mean we were only doing it for no more then 30 seconds.
(I do know that the day of her last period STARTED on August 18-19th.)
And today Is September 13th... So if heatherlynn22 or any other female may do the calculating of the women cycles for me? ?? lol. The whole calculating and cycles and days is all really confusing to me lol.
(BTW) she just told me she is sick.. sore throat and headache. She said that she was kinda getting a sore throat when I saw her yesterday BEFORE we did anything. So idk if that would matter if she was sick and it had anything to go with pregnantcy.
AND ALSO. Keep in mind she did go pee afterwards. After intercourse, she went to go pee like... maybe 5 mins later?
ladii reggii that is not true. there are plenty of women who have been pregnant or are pregnant from pre ejaculatory fluid. (which is released during any sort of sexual activity. most men do not feel it and can not control it. it may contain less sperm than ejaculate but it takes one sperm to get a woman pregnant.) if she is ovulating (which there are 3-7 days/month a woman ovulates) she can get pregnant whether it is ejaculate or pre ejaculate. if there is sperm she can and most likely WILL get pregnant. once ovulation is finished that is when the menstrual cycle begins. that occurs when the egg that is released during ovulation is not fertilized which your body then has to get rid of. that is why women bled. it is the uterus shedding the lining and the egg getting ready for the next cycle and preparing to release a new egg.
I don't know what you and your g/f''s beliefs are but it's not too late to take plan B to prevent an unwanted pregnancy. If you are against this then wait it out and test as suggested above.
yea it does contain sperm but very few women can become pregnant from it its also known as pre-*** which some women get pregnant from but very few!
you either believe one website or another. there will always be some who say there is no sperm in pre ejaculatory fluid and others (the ones who have children from that spermless pre ejaculatory fluid) who say there is.
the only thing you can do is wait until her period is due. if it's late wait 3-7 days and have her (whether she buys it or you do and i recommend the digital tests...they may be more expensive but you don't have to worry about evaporation lines and once the time limit is reached the test screen goes blank so imo they are better) take an hpt. she could be ovulating it depends how far into her cycle she is. you're just going to have to wait and don't have unprotected sex again. even if it's "real quick".
the only thing you can do is wait until her period is due. if it's late wait 3-7 days and have her (whether she buys it or you do and i recommend the digital tests...they may be more expensive but you don't have to worry about evaporation lines and once the time limit is reached the test screen goes blank so imo they are better) take an hpt. she could be ovulating it depends how far into her cycle she is. you're just going to have to wait and don't have unprotected sex again. even if it's "real quick".
Yeah, but again, there are websites that do say pre ejaculation DOES NOT contain sperm. But I guess its wrong.
What do you think the percentile of pregnancy with pre-ejaculation and + ovulating + my info above original post is?
Cause she did say somewhat in the morning her "ovary" hurts. ??? Below the stomach area
Again, shes only 16.
What do you think the percentile of pregnancy with pre-ejaculation and + ovulating + my info above original post is?
Cause she did say somewhat in the morning her "ovary" hurts. ??? Below the stomach area
Again, shes only 16.
Can a woman get pregnant from pre-ejaculation? Pre-ejaculation is the liquid that seeps out of the penis before ejaculation occurs. Most guys have no control over it and cannot feel it coming out. This type of fluid does have sperm in it and can result in pregnancy. This is part of the reason why the withdrawal method of birth control is not as effective as other methods.
that's from a website i found....
that's from a website i found....
her chances are high if she was ovulating. and you can search thousands of medical sites on the net and get a different answer from all of them. some say that pre ejaculate contain sperm while others say it doesn't. talk to women who have gotten pregnant when the man has not ejaculated and there was only pre ejaculatory fluid. so it is entirely possible for her to get pregnant that way.
So all the med links about Pre ejaculations are wrong...? Lol?
What are the chances of my gf being preganat in this situation and information I posted?
What are the chances of my gf being preganat in this situation and information I posted?
pre ejaculate DOES contain sperm. there have been plenty of women who have gotten pregnant from pre ejaculate. she's going to have to wait until her period is due and take an hpt.
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