Should i stay or should i go!!!

[Rosa20]

ok ladies...im 14 weeks pregnant and my boyfriend has been treating me like dirt..i dont know how much more of it i can take i mean what do you do ....do i keep letting him do it and hope hes going to change when the baby is born or do i just go as much as its going to hurt me??? Been thinking about it alot and he always seems to want to get away from me to get time away from me..but to me you should have to get away from the person carrying your chile like he makes me cry.....and always yells at me..i know he has a anger problem and he needs to get help but he just wont get any as much as i ask him to..what do i do?

[Riot_Queen]

Try leaving and staying with a friend or family member for a couple weeks to give eachother some space.
And if you come back, and he's still being an a$$hole, then f*ck him... you don't need that kinda sh*t in your life.

[Willswifey9307]

You should defiently go. What are you staying around for? Your pregnant the last thing you need in your life right now is stress. If your boyfriend isnt apperciating you not then he defiently isnt going to change when the baby comes around. With all the crying and attention a baby needs I honestly think it will make things worst for you. A baby is a blessing and so are you and if he can't see that then you have no reason to want to tolerate his selfishness! Move on with your life. If he still wants to be in the baby life then that's fine every man deserves at least that much but you as a woman should want more for your self especailly now that your a mommy! If you think you want to work things out then i say go for it but please please don't stick around just to get treated any kind of way. You deserve so much more then that!

[Kim1989]

you will be fine! i did my pregnancy alone and im raising my child alone! i dont kno if you are going to wind up having him there. but ive come to the conclusion sometimes its better not having the father around if hes selfish

[Rosa20]

well thats it..hes gone his way and im gone mine
so you know what i think im done with his stupid as*...im not sitting around and wating for him now more..i did that too much in this relationship and im not doing it again!!!!!!

[mj_mommy_manda]

I broke up with my bf before I found out that I was pregnant but I think it was the best thing to do.  Him and I get sick of eachother if we are together all the time.  and for awhile he didnt have a job so when i wasn't at work we were always around one another arguing about something he did or didnt do or something I did or didnt do.  Ex:he would yell at me when I didnt pick up my dishes and glasses from the nightstand and I would yell at him when he would lay around all day while i was at work then i had to come home and do laundry and clean and make dinner.  Now that we arent together we hang out probably 2 times a week and watch movies or go do something fun and theres never the complaining about "you didnt do this" or "you forgot to do this" we are just always having a good time together rather than focusing on the bad things.  Idk about you but im only 19 and I dated my boyfriend for 3 years.  It was nice just to have a break and i think we both know that we love eachother and we are both really excited about the baby but right now we just cant emotionally live with eachother.  Maybe after the baby is born things will change.  but if you think you would be happier somewhere else then break it off.. or let him know you want to keep dating but you think it would be better not to live together.  sometimes men need time to do kid stuff before having a kid.  My ex will be 20 in august and he is just realizing that he needs to start growing up and be more mature.

[Linzola1]

If he is treatng you like dirt then I would not stick around, It is very tramatizing to a child for the parents to stick togeter just for them.. My BIL and his GF stuck together just for the 2 kids and they have developmental problems and psycological problems from the fighting.... Typically people dont chane just because of a child... Talk to hi and see what he says but if you dont feel safe, and heis causing you depression or stress it is not good for the unborn child. Best Of Luck