Unusual bleeding

[Kikis_25]

Hello!

Im a 19 year old student and currently on the contraceptive pill Yasmin.  Its been 2 months since ive been off the pill because i always miss to start the pack at the correct day.  My fiancee and I live together and we are very active  sexually.  We never use a condom so he ejaculates inside me every time.  However, a few minutes after we finish his semen comes back down through me.  I finished my last period the 28th of July and that same day I decided to take 2 of my pills thinking I could begin taking the pills once again.  However, by the 2nd of August i've been bleeding excessively like if it were my period.  Why?

[kjbutcher]

I dont think her concern is pregnancy, it is the bleeding.  She said she was aware that she could get pregnant and is ok with that.  Kim, I think maybe you were taking what she was saying the wrong way.  
I think the bleeding is from starting the pill again or shocking your system with two pills and then going down to one daily.  It changes your hormone level which can make you bleed.  This always happens to me.  I am like you and cant manage to take the pills right and I always know when I did something wrong because I would bleed.  If this is your true question...If you ended your period on july 28th, You would not even be pregnant yet to have a miscarriage.  You would be ovulating today or yesterday (so be careful).

[babyscience]

I would recommend not letting your fiancee ejaculate inside of you....especially when NOT on BC!!  Just by standing up after sex, doesnt mean all the sperm come out of you.  It sprays all over your cervix and travels up that way.  If you know what you are getting yourself into are you willing to accept a child out of it....if so, continue what you are doing.  That is very irresponsible!  I back Kim...use a condom and BC!!

[kele1129]

Kikis- Do not make the mistake of thinking that all the semen is draining out of you, all it takes is one energetic sperm to get you pregnant. Sperm can live in the female body for up to 3 days. I agree with the women who suggest using a birth control that you can remember to take or that is automatic. Your health and wellbeing is nothing to fool around with.

[Kikis_25]

Thanks for the advice Smeeo! =)

Oh , and Kim? Its not just some "guy"....he's my fiancee hon and proud of it!!!

[Kim1989]

yes but women have gotten pregnant on the pill, and your not even using it correclty so theres a greater chance of you getting pregnant....also letting this guy ejaculate inside of you adds to your greater chance of getting pregnant.

[Smeeo]

Hmmm... I would say that because you haven't been taking the pills regularly and as directed this is causing you to bleed.

When you're on the pill and you skip your 7 days (or take placebo pills depending on what brand you use), this causes a decrease in the amount of hormones in your body and produces a withdrawal bleed or "period". So i'm thinking that it might just be due to the ups and downs of the hormones in your blood (due to taking no pills, then taking 2 etc) causing you to bleed perhaps...

Maybe try setting an alarm on your mobile phone, or keeping the pills somewhere obvious to remind you to take them? Or perhaps finding another method of birth control which doesn't rely so much on you having to remember to take it would be beneficial?? :D

[Kikis_25]

I was just thinking the same thing Mika!

[Kim1989]

yes i guess however there are something out there called stds and birth controls not 100% and there are a handful of women who have gotten pregnant on the pill and if you allow a man to ejaculate inside of you....that puts you at a MUCH greater risk for getting pregnant. not to mention shes not taking her pills correctly and that lessons the effectiveness of the pills.

not everyones faithful!

[Mika_77]

The benefit of the pill is not having to use the condom.  They are hormones that alter the menstrual process of a women so a woman can have the luxury of not using a condom and having internal ejaculation. I think that's the whole point of it. Obviously, the only disadvantage is that the pill doesnt protect against STD's but if you're in a steady relationship, like me for example, and you're sure he's clean, that isn't an issue for you.

[Kim1989]

you just said you stoped talking them 2 months ago....as in your not on bc correct but at least with my when i  would miss a pill....i would have some slightly odd bleeding. i said your confused becaue you said "We never use a condom so he ejaculates inside me every time" one uses bc beacuse they dont want to get pregnant but you stopped and then dont want to use condoms and then say SO like a of course he cam inside of me thing. thats A GREAT WAY to get pregnant. so it sounds like you want a baby then you dont.

[Kikis_25]

I dont know why you are getting the perception that I am confused.  I am on the pill for an obvious reason.  I clearly stated that for those two months i didnt take the pill because i missed the starting date.  Not for any other reason.  Yes i was having unprotected sex those 2 months but we were both very aware of the risk it involved and we were OK with it.  Im back on the pill, i started now in August, after my last period on the 28th.

Im not really convinced that the reason for the bleeding is because i took 2 pills instead of 1 because it's medically recommended that if i skip 1 day of the pill, the next day you should take 2.  Its completly normal and it hasnt caused me any bleeding previously.

[Kim1989]

WHAT?!

your not currently on the contraceptive pill yasmin if youve been off of it for 2 months
and just because you two "never use a condom.." doesn mean its ok to let him ejaculate inside of you everytime.

your very confused

you said you think you could start taking your pills once again so why would you take two and why would you take them thinking you could start protecting yourself after you choose to have unprotected sex and let your df *** inside of you on the 28th?

your bleeding because you two two pills at the same time.

i would recomend using a condom and getting the injection, iud or implant becuase you cant make up your mind on wether you want to be pregnant or not and by using both forms of bc will help to make sure you dont get pregnant when you dont want to!