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I'm two months late and have what feels like menstral cramps

I'm two months late. And I started to get cramps in my uterus like I would get for my period but its not coming. And there not normal cramps like I use to feel so I know the difference. After I was one month late I took a hpt and it came back positive. I schedualed an appointment and the test at the doctors was negative. I have been sick, tired, boobs hurt and I just realized it while I was waiting for my period to show up which never came. Is there a way I'm pregnant should I take another test? I have a gyno appointment next week so I should be able to find out the true results. And if I am pregnant am I a bad person for realizing it after 2 months? I'm 18 but I'm very responible I have a steady job where I make a lot of money, I go to college have my own place, and I'm in a good relationship. I don't drink much only for celebrations cuz I don't like the way it makes me feel. And I hate drugs. So does it sound like I'm pregnant or am I just thinking to much about this? Ohhh and my period has been really good on time before this. And I did experience spotting thought to mention that.
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290867 tn?1333569278
I am not too sure what may be going on but I want to wish you the best of luck and keep us posted when you get back from your appointment. Best Of Luck
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I didn't test again because my appointment is in a few hours. I'm scared and jumping down everyones throat today. I feel like I'm gonna freak out. I hate this feeling. I never had a pap smear done in my life and my sister doesn't help she keeps annoying me like you have to go to the doctor you have to go to the doctor. And she's 22 and more immature then me. Do they charge your bill if they do a pregnancy test? Because I can't let my mom see that or she would flip out on me before I sit her down and talk to her. And I don't want it to be negative and have to explain. Unless I say hey mom I was two months late told the doctor and she had me take the test. I know I'm most likely not the only one who has had this done to them. I told my b/f last night that I don't care what happens because its not the worst thing that can happen to us. And I have been having a bad couple a years because I lost my fater, uncle, grandmother, and my mom was hit pretty hard with it all. I wish that my friend Althea was there to hold my hand. I'm really self concious and she is like my best friend. And I tell her everything. I know if I am pregnant my sister would have a lot to say she started to call me a s*** before i was even sexually active. And my mom said already she woould kill me. But at least I know my choices and I know the right things to do. Wish me luck everyone I have to go get ready. Boy am I scared.
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448723 tn?1301454958
Did you test again?
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Just tell your doc you need a pregnancy test done. If your urine test comes out positive they will do a blood test. Good luck.
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Whoa I need help cuz I'm starting to freak out......Will my gyno be able to see I'm pregnant tomorrow when I go in for my annual papsmere? I need to know because its eatting me alive. I need to know and what would she say to me? I need help I'm scared.
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I ment 19 in 2 months typed faster then I realized lol
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So my sister brought up that my doctors appointment is tomorrow. I'm so nervous and scared. My mom has been making comments asking if I'm pregnant. And she told me she would kill me if I am. So what if I am what am I suppose to do. Like I understand how much work and time it takes to raise a child. And I'll be 19 next month. I'm not the abortion type of girl so if I am adoption would be my biggest option and my b/f I think will be happy about that. He keeps telling me I don't want a kid I don't want a kid. And I know were both responible for this since we were having unprotected sex. Which I understand was my mistake. Well I don't care what I get told if I am or if I am not. But I know it will be life changing. And I know me and my b/f will start wearing condoms right away. Well he will wear them not me. I'm really nervous though. Like I love kids and I would love to work with children when I'm older in some sort of way. I use to babysit when I was younger and take care of my nieces and nephews when they were babies. So if I don adoption I have to remember I'm making someone else life better. And I'm helping a women who cant have kids due to infertility. Does this sound like a smart move? Giving a baby up for adoption when I'm 19 (I'll be 19 when its born). But part of me would want to keep it. I'm thinking of making a pros and cons sheet. Anyone else have these thoughts?
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hey to me it sounds like you might be pregnant. im pregnant and when i first found out i was 4wks but before that i felt the cramps your talking about i was getting them in my lower right side and they felt like mestrual cramps but i didint get my period. oh and also my sister is also pregnant and when she found out she took a test at home and it came out positive then when she went to the doc it said neg. so they scheduled her for a later apt and the next time she went it said positive and so yeah she is 6months preg now.so i think you are. yeah i also did get some spotting but it was mostly a pink brown color. for me crakers didint work i had really bad morning sicknes. but for alot of people salted crakers do help. drink alot of like juice and water. because if you are pregnant your morning sickness would be here already so if your already sick your gonna probably be sick for a few months sorry  for that i know its not a good feeling being sick. there is this website  called threelollies.com and they sell like lollie pop  they are natural flavors and they really help with the morning sickness.i bought some when i was sick and they kinda work even though they are kinda nasty.
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all i can really say here is trust your intuition.. you kno yourself better than any doctor. if u feel your pregnant.. ur probably correct. so look into it and good luck:)
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just plain ones like sodium crackers . makes ya feel better
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crackers are awesum to snack on when ur puking yes. :)
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Yeah I'm nervous I'm gonna call my friend and have him go to the store with me cuz he wants to hang out. I'm so sick feeling I puked last night and I still feel like puking today. And my body is so drained. I did experience spotting tho and the doctor didnt know what that could of been. She didnt have an ulterasound machine because she was only a college doctor for our campus. Do crackers help with the puking?
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you probably are pregnant. i myself am pregnant and took a hpt and it was positive but my blood test came back positive . but i forget what website, but i was reading that ALOT of ppl dont have enough pregnancy hormone sometimes and for some dumb reason blood tests wont pick it up. example. a lady was 7 months pregnant, SEEN her baby in the ultrasound, but yet.. blood tests and pregnancy tests said negative lol. so you probably are pregnant. especially if u had a hpt say positive.
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290867 tn?1333569278
I would reccomend that you go and purchase a second pregnancy test and see what it says. At your last doctors appointment you could have not been far enough along to get a positive on his test. The doctors tests are more sensitive so that could be y it came back as a negative. I had that happen. Test agian and weather it is positive or negative you need to talk to your obgyn and see what you need to do from there. Best Of Luck and keep us posted.
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would they see anything when i go for my one year papsmere? And well I puked again today drained all my energy to the point I couldnt move and had to go back to bed. It was horrible my b/f wasnt so nice and wanted to hang up on me when i called him. Does that always happy after you puke because if so I'm not happy.
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well their test should have givin you a postive but go get a blood test
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The test wasn't blood..........It was urine
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you might be pregnant. if you havent gotten a period and if your having unprotected sex then you could very well be pregnant. it could be something else. i have never heard of doctors tests being wrong especially if the test was a blood test. take another test or just wait till your apointment
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