yea i know i need 2 stop wallowing in self pity but i cant help it
know1 will be able to knowyour pregnant unless you tell them and its really not that big of a deal. worse things could happen
my journal as in the one not on line
My world is crashing down around me i feel like everyone can tell that im pregnant my boyfiend is trying to help but i wont let him i want to close my feelings up like i have done so many times b4 im scared to admit im scared so i feel the only thing 2 do is hide emotions i know there are people who care but i feel i can only find the ones who dont------this is the first thing i put in my journal 2day rite after home room i have something i need to say but...im afraid to tell anyone
lol yeah i read that but i guess didnt see the whole POSITIVE thing. haha thanks
yeah she got a BFP. Well congrats on your pregnancy! I know that it wasn't expected or planned but some of the greatest things in life are like that. If you have any questions or need anyone all of us are here for you!
so did you test then or not
It is a bit to late for me to try not to panic but yea i will totally get through this hopefully with my brains still in tact
Hey, if you need someone to talk to, I'm here.. I am 16 and I'm about to have my baby sometime between now and June 1. So trust me, I can relate. And also if you have any questions or need help about ANYthing, I know a LOT about pregnancy [and now I can say that I've been there], and I check my inbox basically everyday so feel free to message me. I hope you start feeling better, but try not to panic!
The first step after finding out your pregnant is seeing your doctor. I personally had to get on Medicaid, which is annoying but pretty easy to do. If you want help with that, let me know!
Then Medicaid will give you a list of doctors who accept Medicaid and you find one you want to see.
If you have any questions (and I'm sure you do), ask away! I check this forum only once a day, so if you need a quicker response, just message me privately!
Oh honey, if I could give you a hug, I would!!! When I was dating my husband (before we got married) we thought it'd be awesome if we got pregnant. He was 18 and I was 19. But when I saw the two lines, I FLIPPED OUT! I was hyperventilating and going, "What do we do? What do we do? What do we do?" over and over again.
All I can say at this moment is---relax! You have NINE whole months to think out all the details. Right now it seems like a baby will be here tomorrow, but they won't. You find your estimated due date by entering it into a pregnancy calculator (there's tons out there, you can try using the one on www.****.com).
When you see your baby will be due in Jan. or Feb. that seems like it's far away. Don't worry! You guys CAN do this!!!
it only took 10 minutes and im really freaking out we felt like we had it all planned now i dosnt seem like that as much
yea thanks i took the test and it is positive which is good and totally horrible at the same time
Liberty7, there are maternity homes that allow you to finish school, or you could finish school at home! You have options if you don't want to go to school with a big round tummy!!!
I'm also anxiously awaiting the results!
ok , ill be waitin here for your answer
well the only way to kno is to take it. go take it. and tell us the results. stress can effect your period and also if you are pregnant, you could always look into a different school
My boyfreind and i talked for a long time today ... we talked about our options if i am pregnant and we decided that we want to keep the baby and try to raise it together I live with my boyfriend and he has an okay job its not one he wants 2 keep 4 long but its a job never the less so we want to try and raise our child i have not had my period in awhile and i dont think i missed it because of stress i dont usually stress out much today we bought a test but I dont want to take it for fear of the results he wants me to take it to get it over with but for some reason i am scared too i dont think i can bare being pregnant being all huge having to walk around school like that i dont know
I was 19 when I got pregnant and I know 19 is a bit different from 17, but I was still young! Everything worked out wonderfully. My daughter is going to be 3 next month!!!
Anyway, find out if you're pregnant. Then you need to find someone you can confide in. No matter what, you can do this. I used to volunteer at a crisis pregnancy center and I saw all types of wonderful moms of all different types of lifestyles and incomes. You don't know what's going to happen 3 months or 3 years down the road!
Please know we're here to support you and you can message me any time!
yeah you need to figure out if your pregnant first. if your waiting to take a test beacuse you want him there with you then just come out and say it too him. i dont think theres really an easy way to tell a partner your pregnant. i was 17 when i got pregnant and it was hard but it was oks.
Well first of all are you late for your period? If so then take a test to see whether or not you are pregnant you can get super accurate tests for 1 dollar at the dollar tree or dollar general if you are short on money. Also if you are late it could be due to stress and if you are in school I know that finals are coming up so that might be making you stressed. Also if you aren't pregnant and your not ready to have a baby get on some type of birth control. If you are pregnant you need to tell your parents and your boyfriend. I know its hard but trust me both parties need to know and the only way you can do it is if you are up front with them. They might be a little mad but trust me your parents WILL forgive you. If you have any questions or need any help the ladies on this forum are very supportive and will be here to help you.