i need help

[piggypiggy]

im 15 years old, i know im too young to being sex, but i did, and dont worry i dont plan on doing it for along time after this and not inlesss im on the pill. but i had sex with a guy on the 13, we used a condom and he pulled out, i dont belive the condom broke but im not quite sure how i would know.(how can you tell?) i was suppose to get my period on the 20th a week later, but it never cam. on the 27th(7 days after i was suppose to get my period) i took 2 test at home(got them at the dollar store, not sure that makes a diference?)they were both negative. than i went to a prego clince where you can take a test.(i went to this on the 28th, 8 days after i missed my period.) they told me it is 99.1% rite, its one where you urinate in a cup and put 5 drops on this thing and wait 4 mins, it was also neg. but my beast are now tender and i have been bloated and feel like i eat more(this has been for about 3 days now.) but people have told me if you make yourself belive you are prego you will make yourself have signs you are. also someone asked me if my tummy was harder, i think it is but not sure. im very pariond, and ask to tell my mom. she doesnt know i had sex. im really freeaking out. can anyone help? i go back on the 11th to the clince to get another test, i thought about getting another from the store but not sure it pays. i have been reading abouut being prego on the intrent i think i made myself crazy


also, this girl used a condom too and took like 6 tests and home and they were all neg and than went to the doctor and she was prego, thats what scares me alot!

help anyone?

[heatherlynn22]

if she does do you have someone else you can go to? an aunt? grandmother? or someone you're close to? if you go to the doctors or need to you will need to tell your parents. it'll be hard but....if you can't do the time don't do the crime....so to speak.

[piggypiggy]

thats how i feel about it. im scared she will kick me out the house or disown me

[heatherlynn22]

than you're going to have to tell your mom. it might be hard and you may be scared but she'll be more worried about your health than anything. she may get mad and yell but think about your health. what if this is something serious that needs medical attention? and if you do go to the doctors and you're not pregnant you can at least discuss b/c options and having your mom there will make things less confusing. trust me. moms can be a huge help. when my mom found out i was sexually active she was disappointed in me but she didn't disown me, throw me out of the house and i was TERRIFIED of telling her.

[piggypiggy]

problem is to go to the doctor i have to tell my mom. cause im under my rents insureance

[heatherlynn22]

if you had sex on the 13th it would be too early for symptoms. most women don't even know they're pregnant until they're 4 weeks along. you're still young so your periods won't be regular just yet and if you're under any stress that could affect the way your period is. if you still think you're pregnant go to your doctor and ask for a blood test.