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lied about age now what?

I lied to this guy thats 21 told him i was 18 we dated had unprotected sex i got pregnant and had to tell him my real age now hes afriad of going to jail i told him im emancipated but hes still worried he said we should do abortion but im against it and i still really liked him and he told me he planned to get back with me but now with my age hes mad and hurt idk what to do advice pl all i do is cry all day im lost im 16 and i know i messed up my mom is hurt and so is my sister they said abortion cause im too young and too smart to ****.up my life if anyone has any advice i would love you
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It doesn't sound like yu want an abortion and yu can't let anyone force one on yu... in California I know 16 is the age of consent and I'm sure him having sex with yu was consentual so yu should be good there...but as for him coming back yu can't force anything on him...just give him time to warm up to the thought of being a dad and if he comes back great! If not that's okay too, just worry about yu and baby
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My heart goes out to you yeag have so much on your mind im agenst it too d would never give up my child no matter what and as for the fella givr him time to get around the idea its alot on him too... Things will all fall into place as time goes by
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I'm 16 also and I been trying to get pregnant door two years nothing happened so I thought I wouldn't get pregnant now i'm pregnant 22 Weeks nn I don't know who the father is but the one who I think it is is 20 he scared well we both are I haven't tools my mom who the real dad is yet but i'm nervous don't get an abortion you will feel sad afterwords
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If you live in Colorado the age limit is if you are 15 you can date someone who is 10 years older than you and participate in sexual activity as long as he/she is not a person of athority like a doctor or teacher or police officer. This happened to my birth mom and father but she was 15 and he was 21. Similar to your case. But I do not believe in abortion either. I am not against people who believe in just don't believe that I could do it myself. It is all up to you and what you want to do. I do not know about any other states but that is all I know. I hope everything works out okay for you and that you are happy with whatever descion you make. :)
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