I have missed my period by two days and have not experienced any bleeding at all and no discharge. I have swollen breasts, cramps in my lower back, and my usual abdominal cramping. I have been taking desogen (apri) birth control for over 2 years and have not yet missed my period for over a day. this is the first it has not been consistent. I am sexually active with a steady partner in a monogamous relationship. I am not ready for a child and need to know if I should seek a morning after pill, take my birth control for next month instead of my placebo pills to try to start my period, or what other options I have. It is too early for a pregnancy test and I do not want to be too late to have to take any other type of action. PLEASE HELP!