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How pregnant do i sound? What's the probababilities?

Ok. Im trying to shake the thought of pregnancy from ymy head becuase i have ALOT of things coming us this year and i wasnt excpecting a baby to be one of them. I can deal tho, or try. Ive only had 1 bf and he has only had 1 gf (me) and we lost our virginity together. Were still together (1yr, 1month.) We had one pregnancy scare, but it was just PMS and all in my head. It was wrong timing and i was luck to not get pregnant. Well, i never really paid attention to this pre-ejaculation or ovulation thing? Nobody told me anything (seriously!?) until i looked it up myself.

We had sex two days before i ovulated apparently, after i calculated it. He did the pull out method (which im hearing was a dumb choice becuase of pre-ejaculation.) Not to mention it being this close to my ovulation it's more likely to get pregnant. Im only blaming myself, i know it was my fault and a dumb move... And im trying to think that im not becuase i dont want to "think" the symptoms into happening.

I read all this research on Preggo early signs and what all these women have to say about having pregnancy symptoms two days after unprotected sex! I thought that was insane, I was told you had to wait weeks && weeks before you saw signs. My period is suppossed to be here in about 13 days.

Im experiencing this consatant sick feeling in my stomach and when i wake up i never want to eat anything until its something i REALLY want. Ive had light cramping for the past two days, and all ive done is sleep today. My boobs have a slight pain to them (not to the touch) but just a light sorness right now. And my stomach is having this weird tugging feeling in it. Its all crazy!! And i read that alooot of girls have went through this, this early... Im not scared, I just wish somebody could give me a number to which they think i could be pregnant. Like on a scale of 1-10 what do you think, or in percents do to the facts... I don't know what to do.

I can't tell my parents, i feel like a dissapointment and really depressed now, my boyfriend is supporatave which im grateful for... I want to wait to tell my parents, until i know the baby lives before i casue hell to desend upon our families.
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if you're paranoid about becoming pregnant don't have sex. it's the ONLY way to be sure you don't. if you ARE actively trying to have a baby you may want to not only discuss this with your bf but also your parents b/c i highly doubt at the age of 15 your capable of caring for a baby on your own. even though you think you're disappointing them eventually IF you are pregnant (which if you had unprotected sex before you ovulated chances are very high you are pregnant) they will know. you NEED to tell them. and IF you are not pregnant your mom should help you make an ob/gyn appointment and get you on some form of b/c ASAP! AND use condoms!

the only way you'll know if you're pregnant is if you take a test 3-7 days AFTER your period is late. early pregnancy symptoms can be the exact same as pms.
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you keep thinking your pregnant. your 15 and seem to be actively trying to get pregnant.

http://www.medhelp.org/posts/Teen-Pregnancy-Concerns/Not-really-sure/show/958943?personal_page_id=492722&post_id=post_4496018


i think you need to not have sex for a few years. enjoy being 15. talk to your parents about how into sex you are and how your not taking your birth control, keep posting on the internet about if your pregnant and not listening to our advice, and continue having unprotected sex asking if your pregnant

no one can tell you. you have take a test and stick to that answer. your 15, and "cant tell my parents' but your making a very big adult decision to keep having all of this unprotected sex.
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