virginity question

[blink16fun]

i lost my virginity 2 weeks ago and it was about 2 days after my period. it only lasted 20 seconds and i started bleeding so we stopped and he didn't ***. a few days ago it kinda stung when i was peeing and i seen a few drops of blood. ive been freaking out the last couple days thinking i might be pregnant but i don't know how i could be when it was so fast. it's been itchy down there these past couple days and yesterday when i was in the shower i tryed feeling to see what it was and in my vagina it seemed like something was puffy in there. i researched it and it said the itchiness could be from losing your virginity because something inside your vagina expands when you lose it and it may cause you to swell down there. it's too early for me to take a pregnancy test because my period shouldn't be starting till next week. but i'm freaking out, can you help me figure out what this could be?

[blink16fun]

okay thanks, i took a pregnancy test today and it came up negative right away. my period should be coming tomorrow, can't wait!

[Clysta]

Nothing to be concerned over. Even pregnant you don't always get that anyways. Mine was squishy until almost 5 months. It won't truly even become "hard" until your uterus comes up above the pelvis bone, and when you have a contraction.

[blink16fun]

okay thanks because the only thing freaking me out is the hard stomach.

[Clysta]

Sounds more and more like a UTI. They sell OTC tests that you can use to check yourself. I keep a bunch on hand, because my UTI's turn into kidney infections and land me in the hospital. You can also get a test to check for yeast infections as well. This way it could save a doctors visit, (or at least make it known that that's why you're there, and not something like pregnancy). The UTI tests are 9.99 and I got mine at Target or Walmart. The yeast infection tests are something like 14.99 and every store I've been to carries them.

[blink16fun]

thanks to all of you. the itchiness has been going away, i don't really even notice it any more. but yesterday it kinda stung to pee again and a little blood came out. i do believe it is an infection and i sure hope it is. my backs also been hurting lately but i think it's either from me being stressed or from working out. my period should be starting in a few days. but i have another question, is it normal for your stomach to feel harder when bloated? because it seems harder but i'm thinking it's because i should be starting soon. i talked to my sister & she said it could just all be in my head of thinking i'm pregnant because she thought she was a million of times & she thinks i really have nothing to worry about & it might just be a yeast infection. ill be sure to in the future to always have safe sex and use protection. thanks again!

[Clysta]

Actually, that's not true. Not all pregnant women get symptoms of any kind. Symptoms also DO NOT mean pregnancy. You can have em all--doesn't mean you're pregnant. The brown line you can have without ever having children. I had it long before I ever had my daughter. Headaches are part of life and sickness can happen from anything ranging from food poisoning to a virus.

[crockett935]

well if its scaring you that bad go to the doctors im only 16 i lost my virginty 3-4 years ago but i never had that but its probley nothing your probley worrying because its your first time, unless you have head aches, a BROWN line goin down your belly button to your pubic line, sickness or anything like that then you have nothing at all to worry about, but thats my opinion if your that worried go to a docotor :) x

[Clysta]

I agree. Sounds like an infection. Likely UTI and/or yeast. You wouldn't still be swollen 2 weeks after you had sex. You do need to make sure you always use condoms though, as well as getting on birth control to prevent unwanted pregnancy.

[sweetpea03]

You have an infection(itchiness, burning feeling when peeing, etc are all symptoms of an infection) and you should make a doctor's appointment to get it checked, if these symptoms have continued. If the symptoms stopped it may have cleared up on it's own. Otherwise, wait until your period is due and if it is late, take a home pregnancy test. Any time you have sex, you risk the chance of getting pregnant. It doesn't matter how long the sex lasted. Pre-ejaculation(the wetness that is present when a guy has an erection) does contain sperm, so you should always use some form of birth control/protection. Don't ever believe a guy who tells you he did not pre-c u m, because he can't feel it and would never know when it happens. Use this as a learning lesson to be much more careful next time and use condoms and another form of birth control to avoid STDs and an unwanted pregnancy. Take care.