I think i am pregnant.

[Vina48]

I think i am pregnant, I have been feeling sick & i've been having headaches, but we used a condom but i am very sure it split, he took it off & we still started going only a tiny bit though, I doubt i am but i've been having queit a few symptoms. I am fifteen years old i dont know if im jut immaging it cause i want too be or i mignt not be.
Can someone help me, i keep being dizzy & stuff, but i dont know too scared too go too the doctors or take a test cause i get my hopes up all the time.
x


This discussion is related to i think i am pregnant but i have no syptoms and a bump thats hard on my tummy.

[Tracy21]

have u missed a period if so how many days

[Kim1989]

your not kinda sure if the condom split. you would know. most guys who have a condom who break on them get a little worried and dont just pass it off

it doesnt matter what tiny bit amount of time you two had sex unprotected. precum can and does contain sperm. so you can get pregnant.

like tracy said.....have you missed a period? and if so how many days?

but if you are pregnant your going to have to go to the store or go to the doctors.

but you said something very worrysome at least to me ".... too scared too go too the doctors or take a test cause i get my hopes up all the time" you get your hopes up all the time????? has this happened to you before??? are you wanting to be pregnant?

[LauraB78]

You are 15 YEARS OLD!!??

Go talk to your Mother or Father, or Rabbi or Priest, Pastor.. whatever adult you trust, schedule a doctor's appointment and have a pregnancy test.. I hope and pray it comes back negative.

Then, shcedule an appointment with a child psychologist to find out WHY at 15 years old you are #1 - sexually active, and #2- thinking (foolishly) that you are ready to and want to have a child..


WTH is going on in these forums that we are giving advice to CHILDREN that aren't nearly mature enough (by age or actions) to even be SEXUALLY ACTIVE??

You are TOO SCARED to go to the DOCTOR but you want to be a MOTHER?! I am outraged...

I am not trying to mean. I have provided sound advice above.. I will say again, please find an adult you trust to go to the Dr. w/ you. And seek assistance from a therapist or someone that can guide and educate you more. You have MUCH too much ahead of you.. Having a child when YOU ARE STILL a child is NOT a good idea.

[Vina48]

I was on injection, which i come off it, & i wont be on my period for ages anyways so i dont know what too do, & i dotgo too school i get home tutore if i could turn back time and be a virgin i really would, i cant help what mess i've got myself into now your just making me feel bad about myself, im a girl that take things to heart, i self harm and stuff but ive stpped that ad now your making me feel worse about myself. & Yeah i want to be pregnant bcus im sick of the rest getting attention like my nethews yeah i am a sad little girl, but my broter & sister have a kid and they was 17 .. Ffs i dont know what too do .. I hope i aint pregnant.

[LauraB78]

I think you should consult a parent or an adult you trust. I wasn't intendeing to make you feel bad about yourself.

I just think you some help, and I am not a doctor and can't provide with you the help I feel you desperately need.

If you are sexually active and do not want to become pregnant, use b/c or condoms (actually BOTH would be recommended).

In the meantime if you think you may be pregnant, you need to confide in an adult and see a doctor.

I truly wasn't trying to make YOU feel bad.. You are just too young to have a child, and if you are hurting yourself, or just looking for attention,  then I think you should seek a therapist as well..  You seem by your posts to be clearly confused. In the first post you say you hope you are pregnant, and in the more recent post you say you hope you aren't??   I think you may really really need to seek therapy or maybe your church/synagouge leader?. I see a therapist and find it to be benefical..

I hope you do find a therapist and an adult to confide in about the pregnancy issue that you trust and take care of yourself.

[Kim1989]

you just said.. "yeah i want to be pregnant bcuz..." then you said you really hope your not pregnant.

just because you havent gotten your period yet doesnt mean you have "ages" till you get it. yes i would say you need to get some help!

[JoyRenee]

Let's please respond in kindness. We are here to offer advice and support during what can be a very scary time.

To the poster, you can go to a pregnancy center in your area and have a pregnancy test when your period is due. In the future, be careful. I had my first baby when I was 20 and it was HARD! We had no money, at one point we were on food stamps, our apartment got freezing cold in the winter---it was NOT the life I wanted for my child.

Get through school. Meet a wonderful man and marry. THEN think about kids.

[Vina48]

Well, I dont go too school for one because i have mental health which help me through life, and i have only been cutting myself scince my neice died cause noone was liseening to my point of veiw its like i cant cry about it, anyways i will go too the doctors, and im sorry i dont agree at all with the morning after pill its just meen & selfish, x

[Vina48]

Kim, Not being funny, i don't cut myself for ''attention' at all, You don't know what goes on insde my head at all & Ok have you been on the injection if so tell me when you got off how long till it was your period Your sposed too be on here too be kind and helo people about advice.

[Kim1989]

i dont understand why your flipping out. read what i said!

where did i say that you were trying to be funny? i was talking about how you sad you dont want to be pregnant then how you said you do!

ive never been on the injection and i have never heard of a 15 year old being on it either. they usually want to put young girls on the pill

so let me know where i was rude

[Kim1989]

o who mentioned the morning after pill???? isnt it too late for that and thats not selfish its not the same thing as an abortion.

and you could still go to school even though your have some mental health problems.

im sorry for your loss but i would do just what LauraB said and take her advice

[leighanne143]

ok, first off, you do not have a baby because you are lacking attention.

i run a group home for people with mental illnesses, are you in therapy or taking medications?  it seems like you should be because cutting yourself to release pain is not the right thing to do.  there are coping skills to help with that, especially DBT (dialetical behavioral therapy).  you need to go back on birth control because you can not bring a baby into the world when you yourself are not mentall healthy.

please message me if you need further information on ways to help you or numbers to call.

[Vina48]

Oh right, & I took a pregnancy test today even though its only a week & it come out negative so really happy :D.
& I am becoming back stable, i was just trying to fit in with other teenagers my age, where they drink and stuff & my body wasn't used to it. And spirits just turned me deppressed, but i have stopped all that where my mum gave me support.
I knew i shouldn't of rit anything on here now people think i belong in a mental home.

[Vina48]

I did a test & it came out negative even though its been a week or two, but I can't be cause they tell the truth =/.
& I know nobody mentioned morning after pill i just hate it i'm against it, & If you read what i wrote too leighanne143, then it will tell you why i selfharmed well parts.
& Trust me i've tried too go back to school i can't i have a thing called i can't even spell it i'm that dumb. Its where i'm scared of big crowds, I tried fitting in with people my age , but they just drink so... & it was negative so thumbs up woop never ever doing this again in my life :O.
x

[Kim1989]

a lot of girls i know cut themselves. and mostly EVERY teenager i know drinks and/or smokes (weed) like its nothing. i dont get it but maybe they will when they get screwed in the end. i dont smoke or drink and mostly because i dont like what it makes people become, as well as its ilegeal! you shouldnt try and fit it. be your own person!

[Vina48]

Yeah i understand where your coming from, i dont do nothing like that ANYMORE anyways, so i am my on self.

[leighanne143]

no one thinks you belong in a mental home, we just want to make sure you are educated and getting the advice you need.  when is your period due again?   also when was the last time you had unprotected sex?  that will help us guess whether or not the pregnancy test was accurate.