Hi,
this is indeed a hard situation. However, if you do want this baby I am sure that things can be done / managed. Go for a second opinion, if need be. Try to get in with a specialist obstetrician if this is your decision to proceed.
Wish you all the best.
This is not an expert forum; therefore, there is no doctor, here, to answer your questions. We are all patients trying to help each other. If you want a doctor to answer your questions, you will need to go to the expert forum.
I can't answer your questions, but it sounds like you might have some tough issues to deal with. Maybe some of the other members will be able to answer your questions.
I wish you the best of luck.