12 dpo but dont feel much :(

[sepears1]

Well, I slowly but surely creeped up to 12 dpo, but i dont really feel much which makes me very sad. All i've had so far, is bloating, which i never normally get, and lots of cramping, which isnt that unusual for me, but for the past 4 months i didnt cramp before AF. I've heard lost of women say they experienced lots of cramping but still got a BFP.

I'm not going to test until this wed, when i"ll be 14 dpo, but i'm just so nervous that I got my ovulation day wrong! ooo how this 2ww messes with your common sense! lol

just wondering about other women out there and what they felt/didnt feel at 12 dpo, and if they got a BFP at 12 dpo

thanks ladies

[sepears1]

same to you!!

[RavenT]

Yeah... I have been trying for almost 3 yrs... taking a break.. because of timing and driving myself nuts.. getting focused and physically healthier!!!

Good luck to you when you start trying again!!!

[sepears1]

i've been trying for 8/9 months now and nothing. this would be our first. i have a miscarriage a few years ago and a chemical pregnancy this past march.

i just think  its time for a break and we can work on other things in our lives. its just really hard to let go, especially when everyone around us is pregnant!

[kamil119]

sepears1, how long have you been trying?
I really want to have a summer/ spring (that's not going to happen this year) baby, so we give ourselves 3 more months and then will take a break.
I did not realize this could be so frustrating, sice we conceived our daughter the first time we tried! We've been ttc for 3 months and it's driving me crazy, not knowing whether you're pregnant or not is the worst.

[sepears1]

sorry to hear that kamil119. im thinking about taking a break from ttc for a while..

[kamil119]

well, I'm in the same boat, AF showed up today, I was really hoping this would the month when we conceive baby #2, bummer...

[emily1976]

wishing you luck this coming month!! :0)

[lil_lady25]

I'm sorry to hear that, I hope you get your BFP very soon. Keep your head up.

[sepears1]

yes. i did yesterday morning and it was negative and then af arrived late last night

[lil_lady25]

I didnt notice anything different besides being SUPER bloated the entire week before my BFP. Did you test yet?