I have a 5 year old with severe autism, he was diagnosed 2 and a half years ago.
For the past year and a half I have noticed my other son who is 3, turning 4 in a couple of months is not developing as expected.
Everytime I give him food to eat he will throw it or smear it into the floors and walls, each time he does this i remove the food from him and give him 3 minutes time out, I have been doing this for 12 months with no result, he is also very agressive, he constantly hits and bite me or throws things at me, again he gets 3 minutes time out each time but it doesnt make a difference. He attacks his teachers at school, he is not interested at all in being potty trained, he smears his stools from his underpants all over my walls and floors.
He is constantly on the go from 4am until 8pm, he doesn't sit down for a second, and if he does he has to mess with something or someone.
Even if i take him out for a treat he will climb all over the place. He also seems to have no sense of danger even after hurting himself numerous time doing the same things. He also doesn't take any instruction from anyone, at school or from me.
The health visitor has referred his to a child development centre after seeing his behaviour at the 3 year check up, she told me I am doing everything right with him, like praising every little good thing he does, ignoring some behaviours and using the time out disipline.
I am at a dead end, I am so physically tired and mentally drained with trying He isn't interested in any toys either, he only ever wants to play with toilet rolls.
My house is a mess as every day he breaks something, he has just pushed my brand new tv off the table today, smashed 6 eggs on the floor earlier on. It is like this everyday. What could possibly be wrong with him? Any ideas?
Shireen