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To treat ejaculatory dysfunction you have to find the cause. If it is anxiety driven, then yes, an anti-anxiety medication may help. Usually premature ejaculation (you ejaculate before you want to) is due to anxiety to perform. It could also be due to building up of sexual tension and arousal happening too fast. You should discuss this with your partner and both of you should pace yourself. However if there is a problem in maintaining erection too, then there may be some other problem too like use of drugs, diabetes, low testosterone, varicoceles, neurological or vascular problems (peripheral vascular disease, heart or thyroid conditions) etc. You would then need to consult an urologist or sex therapist for this. Take care!
i am not quiet sure but there is an all natural soultion to your promblem aswell it helps with ejaculator control makes you last longer, erectile disfunction makes you harder and makes orgasm's more intesnse and stronger .. its called erexium i've actaully tried it myself pretty good stuff and again all natural herbal remedies no side effects its like 50 dolalrs a bottle last you 2 or 3 months give it a try bud as for lexapro i just did some reaserach on it its more for mood stability if your looking to stabealize your mood i would recomend 5HTP pills they also restore seratonin which is the chemical of happyness i urge you to consider using pills and things with obvious side effects or chemical which are unnatural to the body remember there is always a natural solution with herbs good luck bud !