no sex drive still 9 months after baby help please

[mommy2beautifulkids]

I had a baby 9 months ago and am still breast feeding so i can't take medication Ihave no sex drive i am disgusted with the thought i just want to be the way i used to be please help

[starfishcatcher]

Right now my husband has been refusing to have sex with me for about a year also, so you are not alone.  I know it is difficult to continue in the loving marriage relationship when your sexual needs are not ever being met.  MS can be very emotionally and physically taxing and weakening so I can see your wife's point of view also.  She may be too tired or or in pain to want to have sex with you.  I hope you can get medical help for the MS.  I will pray for you and your wife.

[gverette]

My wife and I havn`t had any sex for nearly a year.It seems to always get this way after we have an child(5).She breast feeds for about a year.when she stops she`s back to her old self again.THANK GOODNESS.Well now she has developed MS.She still has no sex drive and says my constant naggin not turning her on either.She now sees it as if I`m the one who has a problem.Depression, or mid life crises.Wants me to take meds.I say it`s the lack of sex that What do i do?

[alchris]

Goodness, leave it to a man, no offense.  But try and see an endocrinoligist than (maybe a women would be easier)  they will run and complete blood test on everything.  You defninelty could have a hormonal imbalance that needs to be looked at.  LOL I never knew green tea would be an aphrodisaic I drink it everyday and if it worked I think my husband would have loved it.  ha hah.... But serioulsy go to another doctor let them run blood workup.  You just might find the answer.  good luck.  One time I read an article that even if you dont feel like having sex sometimes just a little start can lead to more.  Unfortuanley men are so much more and always in the mood so much more than the women I know.  But since giving birth maybe your hormones are playing the role a little more.

[mommy2beautifulkids]

i talked to my doc and he told me to drink green tea but nothing

[alchris]

Have you tried speaking to your GYN and let the doctor run a thorough blood work of your hormones.  they might be off and that could most likely be your problem.