First of all, I am female, so I hope I am not in an all-male site. I had a really bad bladder infection a couple of months ago, so that might have something to do with what I am going through. I am not experiencing any pain, but I feel like I have to pee all the time. And I will pee, void all I can, stand up, wait a few seconds, sit back down, and be able to pee quite a stream again. Actually, I can repeat this a few times. So, it is not only the feeling like I have to pee ALL the time, I really am peeing a lot too. I guess I need to go to the Doctor, but I decided to surf the net and came across this forum. I guess the only really embarrassing part is that I am worried that this is my fault due to having too rough of sex with my boyfriend. It is really interfering with my life, and besides that, I am a little worried, but I don't have health insurance, so I don't go to the doctor just to make myself feel better like I used to when I had insurance. How awful to admit you squeeze the dime when it is your dime. So I hope I can get some help, I just peed ten minutes ago, and already I feel like I am going to pee my pants. So, like I said, I am a little scared and would just like some possible hints as to what might be wrong. All my life, being a girl and afraid of bladder infections, I have always visited the restroom very frequently in an effort to prevent bladder infections. Could I have weakened my muscles by not using them to "hold it"? Thanks in advance