My "boyfriend" just asked me to get an abortion.. 18 weeks.

[Expecting_myfirst]

honestly.. What do I say or do? What do u all think? I thought I knew him, even through all the RED flags. Through the cheating and lies, i still believed in him. Now I don't know what to believe. How selfish can one be? How should I try and talk to him?

[Expecting_myfirst]

It's a REAL baby honestly I can't even imagine.  Why would someone wait this long to say it. It seems to me that he's such a *****, for lack of a better term. I don't have anywhere to raise the baby, as he just told me A MONTH ago (over 4 months pregnant) that he was in a "situation" where he can't leave his house, his mom wouldn't allow it either ( I wouldn't know, I haven't even met his mom, it's been 2 years) my mom has told us BOTH since the beginning it can't happen here (at MY families house) and he told me "we will figure this out together, we HAVE to" , "even if all hope is gone" but what all hope is gone so he runs away? My birthday is in 3 days, and it makes me sick that he's trying to make it so his baby NEVER has a birthday. I cry and he's emotionless. He's been ignoring me for a week now, I briefly saw him yesterday & he said point proven because he asked for head and I said "what's wrong with u I haven't seen u in a week and u want to treat me like some *****" funny ... He's sick, he must be right?

[Expecting_myfirst]

I don't know his family to go to, I have NO support from mine. My mom tried to force us in the beginning to get an abortion, I've been fighting though this, for me and my unborn daughter.. But I guess he wasn't able to fight. Why would he? He had nothing to fight for. Obviously this isn't even a "baby" to him

[Expecting_myfirst]

& I would do if alone, I would. I LOVE my baby, but how do I do this alone.. When I don't have my family either ..

[sanja25]

Oh my
I m sorry to hear that
If you want the baby keep it
Nobody can make you do something you dont want
And i think that its to late too
In europe thay dont do abortions after 12 or 12 weeks

[BabyWidmer]

You can go to health and welfare and they will help you with cash assistance, food stamps, medicaid and housing if you live in the US.

[Expecting_myfirst]

I wish it was too late, in my eyes it's ALWAYS been  too late, I could never do it. I''be said it as a cry for help, but never as a serious thing.. Maybe it's my fault. Idk.. How is it even legal in US (mass) to get an abortion up until 23 weeks?! Sick!!!