I think sometimes giving a child up for adoption is the most loving thing you can do for that baby. When we are not in the position to offer a stable environment, comfortable life for a child, it can be the best thing to allow another couple to take on the responsibility. It shows what a great mama you are to even consider it! so many romanticize what it will be like to be a parent and it is the child who suffers.
I wouldn't worry what others think. This is you doing what you feel is best in your heart for your child. I wish you luck with this decision and am here to help if you need it.
It's what you feel is best but you can't make this decision alone because it's not just up to you if her father wants to try and do things then you can't over rule him and give baby up just hold on things will get better that baby will make you do better things for her goodluck Hun I know it's hard
Thank you guys. Im just really upset about all of it and its hard cause i dont have her daddy right now and it feels so hopeless
Dont give up hun. I know how it feels because I was once in those shoes. You stay strong and there is help out there for you. Take advantage of your resources. WIC, Medicaid,food stamps,cash assistance, salvation army, churches, food banks.
Crossroads Pregnancy Centers can help too
What state are you in ? The Salvation Army wil get you an apartment for 2 years, and furnish it. There are tons of programs that can help you
You wouldn't be homeless with a newborn baby women who have kids get more help then people who don't have kids
There are places that will help you when ever you have your baby and before you have your baby