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he took off the condom on purpose
Hi I'm 16 y/o and I lost my virginity Tuesday (may 27) and I decided to let my boyfriend "get some" and loose my virginity to him but see the problem is we we were having sex and he took off the condom I made him put on, and I hadnt realized he had tooken it off until after we were finish and I saw sperm on his penis.. my question is when you ejaculate in someone does the male still have sperm on his penis because that's literally the only clue I have on if he nutted in me or not .
Oh yeah and when I wiped myself off the only thing I saw was blood and NOT ANY of his semen .PLZZZZZ HELP!!!
Oh yeah and when I wiped myself off the only thing I saw was blood and NOT ANY of his semen .PLZZZZZ HELP!!!
COMMUNITY LEADER
By the way, it is your decision about telling your parents if it is allowed for you to have an abortion in your state without consent. do what is best for you. peace
COMMUNITY LEADER
Hi there and welcome to the woman's choice forum. On this forum, we are here to support a young woman no matter their decision. Abortion is certainly a good option that works for many women in a situation in which having a child is not an option. I can understand a young lady not wanting to go through an unwanted pregnancy.
It is a simple procedure and not expensive. Depending on where, it can even be free as it is often priced on a sliding fee scale for women (and at 16, you have no income of your own.) Even at full price, it is usually very expensive as health care providers never want cost to be a reason to not get an abortion if a woman wants one. It's her right to have one if she so desires, so they make it available.
Recovery is also pretty fast. A day of feeling less than great with some bleeding and cramping and then usually it is back to normal after that.
I would strongly urge you to ditch this so called boyfriend. Good grief! To have done that to you! Ugh. You were a smart girl to insist on an condom but that he took it off is ridiculous. This means you can't trust him and he is not worthy of having intercourse with you. In the future, there is also plan B which you do immediately following a situation like this. However, you want that to be more of an emergency situation rather than the routine because it manipulates your hormones.
Good luck and let us know if you need anything!
It is a simple procedure and not expensive. Depending on where, it can even be free as it is often priced on a sliding fee scale for women (and at 16, you have no income of your own.) Even at full price, it is usually very expensive as health care providers never want cost to be a reason to not get an abortion if a woman wants one. It's her right to have one if she so desires, so they make it available.
Recovery is also pretty fast. A day of feeling less than great with some bleeding and cramping and then usually it is back to normal after that.
I would strongly urge you to ditch this so called boyfriend. Good grief! To have done that to you! Ugh. You were a smart girl to insist on an condom but that he took it off is ridiculous. This means you can't trust him and he is not worthy of having intercourse with you. In the future, there is also plan B which you do immediately following a situation like this. However, you want that to be more of an emergency situation rather than the routine because it manipulates your hormones.
Good luck and let us know if you need anything!
Hi sweetie.
I understand completely how scary it is to find out your pregnant at a young age, im only 18 myself. And while i would never judge someone for any decision that they chose to make, i would strongly suggest looking into the other options that you have. If raising the baby yourself is out of the question, you shoukd look into adoption. Tons of people would love to raise a child. And please, tell your parents. They can be a huge support. I wish you the best in whatever you decide
I understand completely how scary it is to find out your pregnant at a young age, im only 18 myself. And while i would never judge someone for any decision that they chose to make, i would strongly suggest looking into the other options that you have. If raising the baby yourself is out of the question, you shoukd look into adoption. Tons of people would love to raise a child. And please, tell your parents. They can be a huge support. I wish you the best in whatever you decide
I would tell your parents. Trust me they will be more mad if you don't tell them and they find out afterwards then you explaining the situation and telling them what has happened. My parents were extremely pissed off when I didn't tell them I was pregnant even though it ended in miscarriage. They can help you and help you pay for the abortion. They'll be mad at first any parent would but just tell them. Also you have to have a parent or legal guardian with you if you're not going to planned parenthood. Make sure you know all the state laws where you are regarding abortion. Also no teen pregnancy is easy it never is it may seem that way looking in from the outside but its not. I don't think any pregnancy really is.
Thank you so much for your advise ma'am I really appreciate it and yes I'm still with him but only because I need money for an abortion because it isn't free and i dont have any money every since this happened my life has been a wreck I haven't told anyone except him and he keeps threatening to leave out of my life without paying for an abortion or anything I swear he's been the biggest douche bag I every met
As am I aware of pro-life people. That's why my abortion paper was the hardest to write to actually find liable research on it. You can easily tell which websites are false because they lean to one side. However others are more difficult to tell apart. That's why I said stay away from images especially on Google most come from pro-life people.
What I was referring to. I'm not going to tell someone what they should do I support anyone's desicion in what they chose to do with their lives. That's why I stated on my most recent knowledge that before doing any medical procedure to do your own research so if you have any questions about it you may find your own answers of proven medical websites or by the doctor themselves. There are websites medically proven and videos available to educate people on abortion however there are some things to avoid such as images. Don't look at those on Google.
Most are no longer doing abortions because it is expensive and abortion providers are threatened and murdered. I have volunteered at planned parenthood and I have friends who are nurses, councilors, and abortion doctors. I am very well acquainted with what they do and why there are so few of them. I am also aware of how often right to life groups are charged with slander and liable for making misleading documentaries and false claims.
I did read your full post. I agree with what you said about doing her own research. That is why I qualified my statement by saying 'some' of the information you are giving is incorrect. :)
I'm so sorry you're in this situation. I agree with some of the other posters. Abortion is safe, legal and one of your choices. Don't let anyone make you feel bad about whatever choice you make.
I also stated that she read up on it herself so she's prepared. Please do read a full reply before commenting.
Yet according to recent studies and witness accounts places such as planned parenthood doctors are failing to actually tell the patients what they're doing during an abortion procedure. Why do you think that so many doctors refuse to do it and why so many are actually losing their licenses for failing to be I formative. And the paper I did was for a college class.
Monica, are you a high school student yourself? Some of the information you are giving is very incorrect. A doctor would lose their license for lying to a patient or not properly informing them on the procedure. Abortion is the most heavily regulated procedure in America. It is important to make sure we are using current, unbiased information when supporting others.
Remember though you could also be some couples angel who can't have children and put your baby up for adoption. Before you go for an abortion I suggest doing some research on it because doctors don't tell you what's really going on. They'll tell you its just a clump of cells when depending at what stage you're at it is not. Do so.e research on abortion and read other women's stories on what they chose to do it'll help you a lot at deciding and don't make a desicion out of fear because later you could regret it. I'm not trying to persuade one way or the other just trying to be helpful you can inbox me if you have any questions I did a whole paper on abortion and know a lot on it.
I am so sorry you found yourself in a difficult position. Abortion is a good, safe option for most women who choose it. It is safer than child birth, doesn't effect your fertility, and very few women experience negative side effects afterwards. But only go through with it if this is YOUR decision. Women should never be bullied or threatened to have an abortion, not by their parents or their partners.
I hope you left this boyfriend. It is a very shady thing to remove a condom without permission. In some countries tampering with birth control is illegal. Personally, I prefer to be in charge so I always took the pill. I highly suggest it. As long as you have insurance, it's free! Lots of support, healing, and peace to you.
I hope you left this boyfriend. It is a very shady thing to remove a condom without permission. In some countries tampering with birth control is illegal. Personally, I prefer to be in charge so I always took the pill. I highly suggest it. As long as you have insurance, it's free! Lots of support, healing, and peace to you.
Ok I just found out I am pregnant unfortunately and I'm trying to to get an abortion
Hi sweetheart,
It is very possible that your boyfriend ejaculated inside of you.... What you are describing could of been from him or you!?! It is hard to tell the difference at times because some woman can be very moist and ejaculate as well. Did you ask him did he *** inside of you!?! To be on the safe side I think that you may need to have a physical done as well just as a precaution that no std's were transmitted.... As well as to check for pregnancy. The bleeding that u saw or had was due to you losing your virginity and your hymen being broken, this is to be expected.
I wish you all the best and hope I've said something that could help.
Good luck!!!!
It is very possible that your boyfriend ejaculated inside of you.... What you are describing could of been from him or you!?! It is hard to tell the difference at times because some woman can be very moist and ejaculate as well. Did you ask him did he *** inside of you!?! To be on the safe side I think that you may need to have a physical done as well just as a precaution that no std's were transmitted.... As well as to check for pregnancy. The bleeding that u saw or had was due to you losing your virginity and your hymen being broken, this is to be expected.
I wish you all the best and hope I've said something that could help.
Good luck!!!!
If he had semen on his organ he must have ejaculated.. Or you might be confusing it with precum.. If it was viscous and white it was semen and he must have ejaculated somewhere if not in you.. If it was transparent and slimy it was precum.. Sex without protection has very much chances of leading to pregnancy.. I think u should take some precaution if u aren't prepared for pregnancy.. Good luck..
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