opinions on being so in love

[wantingmybaby]

so i am so in love with my ex. he broke up with me 3weeks ago. Im six weeks prego. i found out a couple of days before we broke up. but i wanted to make sure i was i took three test.all postive but i had to get proof for him. i knew he was not gunna be happy about it. so we talked about it.he doesn't want another kid atm.he has two that r in fostercare. he is working on getting them back. but he doesn't think we could afford a kid. so we decided to try to find money for a abortion. idk he says he will find the money.but in doing all this for him.he agreed we will get back together in 3 months when he should get his kids back. n he is gunna buy me a promise ring. n in a few years we r gunna try for a kid. im 21 n i live at home n my mom doesnt know im prego.

[showard022]

I can't see him asking you to do that if he loved you. I'm sorry just personal opinion. There always a way.  As well as adoption. It's just hard cause at my 7 week appointment you could see the babies heart beat, little arms and legs. Your giving up a very precious life on the chance he will be with you later on.

[wantingmybaby]

i do want my baby. But we did agree on all this.he is right that we don't have the money to support this baby. i feel like **** for agreeing with him.
n just because you're baby daddy said that doesnt mean my ex is the same type of guy that yours was. Not trying to be rude. my ex still has stuff to do with me wat lil time we do spend together. he still loves me n yes he does hate him self

[ftm502]

Your name indicates really want your baby so thats what u should do. Keep your baby. When he gets himself together all five of you(including the other two children) can be together if that's what he really wants. And you should just sit your mom down and tell her instead of just assuming she will kick u out. You are 21. Basically don't terminate your pregnancy based on what he wants. What about your feelings? What about the baby? Is it all just about him?

[paisleysept8]

Do not believe him..  my baby dad told me to get an abortion and we'll try again in a few years.. if I didn't he would leave, well he left me anyways and turns out he never wanted anything to do with me, he was just sexually attracted to him... Im so glad I didn't get an abortion. I'm now 8 months and haven't heard from him since but I'm so happy because my new bf has been there for me.. my daughter is the best thing that ever happened to me

[wantingmybaby]

n he does take care of his kids. he is a great and wonderful father to his kids

[wantingmybaby]

it to were he doesn't have a life. n tellin my mom id prob get kicked out