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want your opinions!

Ok ladies, I would like to know your opinions on abortion..I myself would never consider one (unless it is a critical medical reason), but my Bestfriend is telling me she wants to have one. I kinda don't know what to say to her, other than do what's best for her, her boyfriend, and her 2 yr old. But I'm curious on how you ladies feel about abortion.
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Hi C, Theres a lot of against, and some for and some between, but please remember its her life, her body and ultimately her choice, nobody has the right to try and persuade her differently.
Look we all love our children, but would you try and stop them having one, if so your so wrong, as any body here is, if you think I'm wrong just go back and reread, her life, her body and her choice, end.
Good Luck
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I agree with all these mothers. I got pregnant with my daughter at 15 and she's now 5 and I'm pregnant with my second baby girl and could never imagine taking my child's life because I didn't want to take care of another child or didnt think I could afford it. We are struggling as it is. But that's why your Kids come first. Abortion is not a option in my mind. Unless your raped. No disrespect ment either.
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I've had an abortion. I don't agree with it as birth control but 4 years ago i got raped repeatedly by a family friend whom was supposed to be trustworthy. I fell pregnant & couldnt cope. Everyone is different & personally if you aren't 100% ready to have a child why not look at adoption instead of abortion. Its not right for everyone but its how the person feels xx
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I would NEVER EVER have an abortion!  My opinion it is murder!!
and SHOULD NEVER be used as birth control.  
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Not all pregnancies are down to carelessness and just laying there with your legs open. I was on the pill when i fell pregnant, like my mum who had even had the coil fitted. For me, abortion was something i was considering because im young and i wanted to be able to give my baby a good life myself, and i wouldn't be able to let somebody else do that, personally. There are so many reasons why a person would want to abort a child, and it is a personal decision.
Anyway, i chose to keep my little girl and im now 35 weeks. We shouldn't judge anyone on their decisions.
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I personally would NEVER have one unless me or my baby would not make it like medically necessary or if raped. I do believe ppl have rights to but i never would
. u could always put baby up for adoption nd have a loving family take the baby
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