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Apology to all especially Sparkeler

First of all I didn't post this thought to cause so much conflict. I am a person who hates conflict and would never cause it on purpose. I also and not a angry person. I did get defensive when it felt like to me my husbands integrity was being questioned. My husband though a man of God, has his own struggles and he is honest with me about everything, even if it hurts sometimes. I know he would never cheat on me. I apologize for sounding threating, I didn't mean it. I was just upset. I really do enjoy talking on these forums and don't want you ladies to think me unapproachable. So please consider this questions dropped and please accept my sincerest apology to all those I frustrated or offended.
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I don't know that an apology is required. You said something controversial and your opinion is likely held by many people. It allowed everyone the opportunity to share some well-wrought opinions on something very important. I like that kind of discussion and encourage it.

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93654 tn?1247499334
I really don't think it was that big of a deal that it needs to be rehashed day after day. The best way to drop something is to drop it yourself.

Personally, if someone on here questioned my dh's integrity, I wouldn't give two sh*ts about it. It's not like they know me, us, or our situation, so don't let it get to you. No need to feel like you should defend his honor to a bunch of strangers.
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172023 tn?1334672284
I agree, Milkpage.

I wouldn't give a hoot who thinks what of my life partner.  In fact, the very fact that I have a life partner is criticized.  

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I think there is a reason why your posts keep getting deleted...
Take the hint, and stop already.
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The previous posters are right!!! You shouldn't worry about what anyone thinks. We don't know you.

Let me tell you, I used to get upset at every little thing that was said. Not now, I have come to the conclusion that everybody has their own opinions.  

Oh! I also posted under your other post.
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No need to apologize to me.  I don't think your husband is a cheater.  All I was saying is that hpv is such a highly contagious diesease, that you shouldn't be offended if someone suggests you get a pap smear.  It's responsible.  And we live in a world where there is a lot of casual sex going on.  That's it.  Bottom line.
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brandi its really no big deal. i said what i thought, just as you or anyone does. that is what is great about this forum, we say what we feel and then move on. hormones run high here!! lol. just 12 more days everyone!! get to shoppin!!
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172023 tn?1334672284
Casual sex, or formal sex?  It's important that I know the difference.
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Both.
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130384 tn?1221593027
Yes, both.  During formal sex the tuxedo does not prevent the transmission of HPV.
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172023 tn?1334672284
Thank you for the clarification.  I would hate to be dressed the wrong way.

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93654 tn?1247499334
What is the proper attired for casual sex?
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130384 tn?1221593027
Either your birthday suit or a wife beater.
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143952 tn?1237864541
i prefer formal sex so that i can show off all my jewelery - makes me all sparkley
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172023 tn?1334672284
I have to use glitter to get that effect.
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I like to use my Bedazaller (TM) on my neon thong and matching pasties. If I want to go extra formal, I will wear my dress flip-flops.
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143952 tn?1237864541
ouch!  don't those rhinestones hurt?  oh, you must take them off quicky :)
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130384 tn?1221593027
"matching pasties"

AAAAAAAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHA!!!!!!!!!!!
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I just have to post a comment to post one hehe
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PGB
If you really want to "dress it up" try some braids.  Works wonders!!!!!
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150483 tn?1212168556
Or piercings & a swing...Wowsa
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That is braids on the pubes, right?

Did anyone mention dredlocks?
...or metal poles with magnets?

How 'bout some liver slapping?
That's pretty dern casual to me.
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PGB
haha  You are killing me!!!
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How about wearing a wife beater with a braided pubic mullet stuck to a magnetic pole, in the library with Col. Mustard...
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