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morning ladies,how do i help my bf????....i want him to check his sperm count but he doesn't want to go, I don't want to seem that i am pushing him to go, b/cuz the last time i mentioned it he was pissed (men & there egos). Anway, he claims the reason for us not conceiveing is that he needs booster drinks to build his sperms. I don't want to discourage him, b/cuz he mighten bother to go to the DR....So i'm leaving him to drink his stuff have him believing it could work....quiet honestly i know that's not going to help...but i want some advice on how to encourage him to go & get much better advice on what he needs......i need some marriage advice please..help !!! one island love....:)
Sounds like he is probably sick of all the baby talk. Maybe lay off for a while. Work on other things in your relationship, like the wedding. You COULD be driving him crazy.
This may be a silly question but you keep referring to him as your "boyfriend" and keep saying you're getting married- so is he your fiance and you have an engagement ring on your finger or what? I'm just a little confused...
Island, you asked for advice and that is what the ladies here gave you- we're just not telling you what you want to hear. I agree with the women that said you should get married first and then TTC. My husband and I got pregnant one month prior to our wedding, and the first year is enough of a learning experience without having to be pregnant and getting ready for a baby in addition. As for the "baby itch," if you want a baby and the best interest for your future children, you would get your ducks in a row first (figure out the real issue behind your significant other, which is NOT, I assure you, just that he thinks booster drinks will help and get your lives settled together and forever) and then attempt bringing a baby into this world. Having an "itch" for a baby is not good enough reason to try and bring one into the world and not be properly prepared.
This is just my opinion.
Island, you asked for advice and that is what the ladies here gave you- we're just not telling you what you want to hear. I agree with the women that said you should get married first and then TTC. My husband and I got pregnant one month prior to our wedding, and the first year is enough of a learning experience without having to be pregnant and getting ready for a baby in addition. As for the "baby itch," if you want a baby and the best interest for your future children, you would get your ducks in a row first (figure out the real issue behind your significant other, which is NOT, I assure you, just that he thinks booster drinks will help and get your lives settled together and forever) and then attempt bringing a baby into this world. Having an "itch" for a baby is not good enough reason to try and bring one into the world and not be properly prepared.
This is just my opinion.
i hear you honey, i'm not mad b/cuz of the advice it's jus some ladies have been making comments that don't even pertain to what i was talking about it's those ladies i was talking about......yes any way i'm must admit i did kinda drive him crazy about it... alittle too much, now i'm not bothering with it & left him still worried about the situation. but do you think i should make him check before we get married so we could know what to do in the near future.....:)????
oh yes we're engaged....ok ok put me in my place....lol....he's buggin now even than me
So are you saying that if his tests comeback that there's something wrong with his sperm you won't marry him??? I don't think you're quite grasping what anyone is telling you.
I gave you the same advice days ago. Obviously you don't want "real" advice. So hear goes.
I'm sure after 18 months of ttc and having nothing happens doesn't mean a thing. You are both perfectly fine and the drinking and
booster drinks are working great.
Since you are at the "perfect age" to have a baby I'm sure it will happen any day now.
I'm sure after 18 months of ttc and having nothing happens doesn't mean a thing. You are both perfectly fine and the drinking and
booster drinks are working great.
Since you are at the "perfect age" to have a baby I'm sure it will happen any day now.
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