Orgasm thru intercourse

[justa_youngen_06]

all i haer is how great sex is and how much they are looking forward to doing it again, when i have sex it feels good, i enjoy it, but i am almost positive that i dont climax. during intercourse i am pretty sure i have never had an orgasm, but everytime i recieve oral sex and thru mutual masturbation i have an orgasm....am i not going long enough, or am i just not ready for full on intercourse? because i was wondering what i could do to help that along, but still have sex just the same as alwaya......no changes made there.....

[nalah]

wow.. thought i was the only one lol.. ive been with my bf for over a year and never got there from just sex only oral.. i do enjoy it but i never can get there and i feel bad cause he knowss im never close and i think it hurts his ego. but its not him its me atleast with him i came close.. never beforee him have i even liked it.. i just wish i new what i can do to make it better... thank u for the suggestions listed above..

[workANDschool]

I have only been having sex for 8 months. I lost my virginity to a guy who had a fairly large penis and we would sometimes have sex for 3 hours at a time but I never had an orgasm. He would always give me one by fingering me or orally and he was always frustrated that he couldnt make me go through intercourse. I am now with someone a bit smaller but same issues. Fingers and mouth do the trick but when it comes to sex i get so tired I just want him to hurry up and come. We're very open with each other and I feel like I'm in that 10% or possibly I have a mental block about it because I tried so hard to not have sex before marriage and got drunk one nnight and killed that dream. It's usually better when I'm on top, or when he's on top and my legs are over his shoulders... any ideas for me?

[ShortOne8]

I havent had an orgasm through intercourse yet either. I've been sexually active for almost 2 years with the same person, but no dice. I cant tell him that im not orgasming because he has some insecurities in that area, not that he should cause he is amazing in every other area. Every now and again, I wont fake it and he gets fustrated and will say that Im bored with him. He's such a boob, but I love him, I want to make him happy and confident in bed. I have amazing orgasms when he gives me oral (multiple positions), uses his fingers or rubs me, but not with his penis. I still have hope that with the various ideas listed above, I'l be able to orgasm through intercourse. I hope to succeed because I hate lying to him.

[SteelesRose]

I am able to climax through intercourse, in certain positions...Not everything does it for me, but I have a wonderful partner who is paitent and willing to help me get there. In all honesty, climax through clitoral stim is way intense and I can only handle it once! Where as when I climax through intercourse its a bit milder and I can have more than one and not feel like Im gonna pass out lol.

I digress... Paitence, understanding, and expiermentation are my suggestions.

[cdawggg]

thanks for the advice buuut..i cant have an orgasm to save my life!! i love all the affection an touchy touchy stuff an ive tried the fiesty stuff.EVERYTHING. but nothing works an i jus get frustrated..helllpp

[missmess8]

Sex seems like a lot of work for such a little reward. I've never had an orgasm through sex, manual stimulation, or oral sex and the only reason I continue to engage in any of these is because I know it makes my boyfriend of 2 years feel loved and happy.