Vagina too tight!!! Someone help!!!

[Gisselle84]

Hi, i was wondering how to make the vagina just a little bit less tight. I know a lot of people tell me that guys like it when its tight, but mine is just a little bit too much. Whenever I have sex it takes my boyfriend a while to get in me and i almost always end up getting a tear because of it.I was wondering if there is any exercise or somthing that anyone might know about that decreases the tightness?? Thanks in advance!!

[Emmee23]

I had this issue at the start of my relationship with my boyfriend of 6+ years. I would be so tight it hurt us both. It turns out it was a phsycological problem rather than physioligical. Even though I thought I was comfortable there was something stopping me from being completely relaxed which meant I was tense down there. We managed to get past this by some mental preparation.  We would take things slow, kiss etc and build up to it, get naked and take deep slow breaths. Once a bit more relaxed he would get ready to enter me from on top and whisper sweet things in my ear and slowly slide in. It may seem like hassle but it made each time so passionate and really felt like 'making love'. After a while the problem went away and 6 years on we still have the most amazing sex.
I hope my experience can help you.

[NataliaVonnie]

My vagina was my problem. I’ve had a lot of sex growing up but I don’t think that’s the reason..I could’t ask my friends about it because we’re too close and it would be embarrassing, I decided to come on here.. after came here i heard about the myotaut from google. Myotaut serum is one of the best way to make vagina lips smaller again I also recently purchased this product about a month ago, it is been great. I’m surprised that it really works.

[apple_92]

I have a tight vagina as well, I am a bit worried about it. we tried using lube and foreplay and everything but it seems to not work out. adding to the problem is the fact that my partner's penis is big. I feel like screaming and crying at the same time. We decided to buy a dildo just to loosen it.

[Irenecjuso]

Hey you just might be nervous on top of maybe having a condition called vaginismus. I had it as well as being nervous about anything going in there that wasn't my finger and I struggled a lot until I found the right type of medical help and guidance. I would suggest going to a gynecologist and getting them to see if you have vaginismus or any other condition like that. My pelvic floor physical therapist was very helpful  but I was lucky enough to be able to afford one so if that's not the case for you... I would try just looking up the condition and getting a set of dilators and working your way up from the smallest to whatever size one you want to stop at. Get a good lube (suggest glycerin free one since you don't want to risk a yeast infection - try online more pricey but your vaginal health is worth it!) and get started and most importantly stick with it. It will work and I can personally attest to it.
Oh and I like starting out sex with me being on the top because I feel more in control and thus less nervous and once I get past the initial few thrusts, I have relaxed considerably to enjoy any position. Hope all these tips work!

[Stephan_gustoff]

Sounds like you haven't been in sexually active very long. Or just starting out. Comfortable sex takes patience and understanding on both parties. Always have him go down on you until you climax first. That will loosen it up a bit. Then Use plenty of lube and get on top that way you can control the angle and depth of penetration. Just hope he can hold out

[beccs1792]

I guess I feel a bit better that it isn't just me. We tried for the third time tonight to have sex and all this time I thought it was the condom causing problems but now we think I am just too tight. I'm so disheartened and I honestly started to cry a little bit. I want to be with him sexually but I just don't know what else to do. I get pretty wet and the condoms we were using are lubricated, so I didn't think we'd need lube. But maybe that will help. I'm not sure. :\

[Irenecjuso]

Hey see my response to others on this post. Lube is everything lol in my case and I spend more money to get a good quality, glycerin free lube (why glycerine free? Because glycerine can increase chances of you getting a yeast infection down there so better to avoid it!) and I also have had a condition called vaginismus. If you have the option to see a pelvic floor physical therapist or a gynecologist I would wholeheartedly recommend that since that's what I did and I felt more confident but other vaginismus patients have done it successfully themselves. Dilators have worked for many of them and that's what both the medical professionals suggested to me and I used that too and was able to train my muscles to relax and accept even the largest sized dilator (I had to start from the smallest and work my way up tho). It takes time and might feel weird since the dilators like dildos... but if you do it right and stick with it and be patient (no need to traumatize your muscles by rushing to the largest size) and only progress to the next size when you are sure you can handle it, you can start relaxing down there. Good luck!

[EmilyPowell488]

I love , love myotaut product ! I do kegals and the comparison is next to none , it really tightens and gives you that extra boost of confidence to give him that good, good.It is a little drying so lube is needed.But this is a must have , its worth every penny!