bleeding during sex? is there something wrong with me! help. read this one.

[jenna37823]

I'm a 17 year old female.  When I was 15 I had sex for the first time, right after that I got checked out to make sure everything was okay as I was always told to go to a doctor after the first time you have sex.  I then didn't have sex again until I was sixteen, just last summer a few times,  and everything was fine and it was with only one person.  Since summer I have had sex numerous times with the same person.  About 5  weeks ago I bled while we were having sex,  but afterwards I didn't bleed at all. I've had what I'd consider "rough" sex before, and haven't bled, and now when it's slow as he's afraid of hurting me I do! I know its not an STD because my guy has been checked and hasnet been with anyone since, and I was checked after the first guy. Ive had sex in a hottub and one of my friends says that could be a possibility as why it is happening, but I doubt it. I even waited it out a month to see what happened and just the other day the same thing.  It's not overly heavy, or thick, but it's embarrasing.  I hate hate hate going to doctors, and don't want to tell my mom, as she would disown me! I'm not on the pill, there is no other reasonable answer! can someone help me? please I just want this to stop. . . any advice?!?!
thanks
Jen

[Rachelds]

My dr told me it was because my husband's penis and my vagina are not compatiable. Meaning he is too big/long for my short my lengh of me inside. Also told me that its an irritable cervix. When the penis hits it, it bleeds because it is sensitive...

But it does not hurt to have things checked out!

Don't be scared dr's see and look at us women daily its there job! They don't car!

Good luck ALL!!

[dcgirl34]

I'm not sure, but I  DON'T think you should go to planned parenthood or go on birth control that stuff is a mess. I know it's embarassing, but tell your mom or some other trusted adult.

[seren_rose]

ive read everyones comments
ive been with my new boyfriend for nearly 3 months and only for the last 3 day i am bleeding while having sex i dont want to go to the doctors im to scared im to scared to have sex anymore its embarising i just wanna know wa it is please write bk let me now thanx xx

[moonlitpromise]

Wow, that's annoying. I can't... "come" and the other one was "su*ks" lol

[moonlitpromise]

I'm 18 and having this problem as well. I had sex with my first and second and third and nothing was wrong. Then I met this guy and even though we didn't have sex, when he fingered me, I bled. He was somewhat rough so I figured it was that. After that I had my first gyno appointment and they checked for STDs and I didn't have one. Then I had sex with my first and I bled a little. It was definitely a turn off. We tried again today and at first it was okay (I kept checking) and then just randomly there was some blood. It wasn't like watery though. It was like dry-ish and weird. I thought maybe it was spotting blood or something, but it's so weird and so gross and I always feel horrible and I want to cry. I'm going to schedule an appointment with my gyno just to be safe ASAP.

I also have another problem. I can't feel anything when I have sex. Recently, I kind of feel it. Before, I couldn't get off from anything beside me rubbing my clitoris. Like, fingering myself didn't work and no one else could get a reaction out of me. My third made me feel good sometimes, and when I tried pot (for the first and last time, I just wanted to try it. Stupid teens and experimenting, lol) I felt it a lot. The guy fingering me kind of made me feel stuff and then my fourth did too and I feel good when he's playing with my breasts and stuff but I can't *** what so ever. Is anyone else having that problem? It really ***** to not get anything out of sex.

[shaeffer]

my girlfriend is doing the same thing and she had a sore on her cervix so go get your stuff checked out that might be you problem 2. see we have sex  a lot and she just resently started bleeding after 2 months of us doing it and she didnt knoe what it was so we both got tested and we were clean and after that we went home and did it to see if it was ok again and she bleed worse than ever and she couldnt move.so befor you guys start hurting like she did go to the doctor!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!