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needing an orgasim!
I'm 26 and have been married 5 years and have never had a orgasim! I have gotten close many times but have never been able to finish, it just goes away!! I know I'm not having one because I just feel physically frustrated after wards and my lower back hurts! Please help me, it's hard for me to want to keep trying when i'm feeling like that!
I'll give you a little more info. I have tried manual and oral stimulation but they just get me excited and nothing more. The position that I can come close in is me on top and him manually stimulating me. Thanks for your help!
I'll give you a little more info. I have tried manual and oral stimulation but they just get me excited and nothing more. The position that I can come close in is me on top and him manually stimulating me. Thanks for your help!
I have tried Acupuncture, counselor and been to a doctor to make sure everything is working fine.
try a vibrator that also rotates... they're usually available at adult bookstores.
Thanks for your thoughts! to answer your questions I have found my G-spot and I have tried lots of the gels and warming stuff. They help but still not that extra something that I need. My mind for the most part is just going with the flow and concentrating on the pleasure, which can be hard to do since I have a young daughter who doesn't always sleep well.
Thanks for all you insight!
Thanks for all you insight!
Have you found your G-spot yet? Have you tried that warming KY-Jelly? Do you drink at all because it may be numbing you from your climax, at least it does for me. Are you anxious about anything? Does your mind wander and you lose it? or is it you are concentrating on it too much.... What turns you on and are you paying attention to that before hand?
It took me years to find my erotic zones, but maybe if you were to self explore yourself, you'd be able to reach the top of the mountain. At least that's what Dr. Ruth says about it...
And I don't just mean physically... where is your mind at? what are you thinking about? What do you fantasize about? Maybe role playing will help you... maybe wearing something sexy all day, knowing that you don't have underwear on at work, what ever you may find that works for yourself, will get you to the middle of the road and you can start from there, as opposed to the starting point, and you will have the stamina to get to the finish line since you don't have to work so hard at getting there?
For me, the keys to the lock are on the chest. Magic buttons that love to be played with... I'm not into the actual intercourse as much as I am into the making out part, the touching the sensual massaging all around there, teasing and saving it until I'm ready to burst.
At least that's what I've found out on my own... now I've got to figure out a way to share this with my hubby... one down, one to go... best of luck.
It took me years to find my erotic zones, but maybe if you were to self explore yourself, you'd be able to reach the top of the mountain. At least that's what Dr. Ruth says about it...
And I don't just mean physically... where is your mind at? what are you thinking about? What do you fantasize about? Maybe role playing will help you... maybe wearing something sexy all day, knowing that you don't have underwear on at work, what ever you may find that works for yourself, will get you to the middle of the road and you can start from there, as opposed to the starting point, and you will have the stamina to get to the finish line since you don't have to work so hard at getting there?
For me, the keys to the lock are on the chest. Magic buttons that love to be played with... I'm not into the actual intercourse as much as I am into the making out part, the touching the sensual massaging all around there, teasing and saving it until I'm ready to burst.
At least that's what I've found out on my own... now I've got to figure out a way to share this with my hubby... one down, one to go... best of luck.
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