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jenni...i have read your posts before and it sounds like you are in no kind of environment to bring a child into. i hope that for your baby's sake you figure out something better for it.
babies are a precious gift...the most important thing you will ever have.
you need to eat. you're pregnant! there are going to be food that you don't like right now, but that will go away afterwards. you can't expect your body to stay the same. all the stuff you love...yogurt and fruit and milk...EAT IT! those are some of the best things you can eat for your baby.
if you're having morning sickness, eat small meals OFTEN instead on larger meals once or twice a day! don't just stop eating. make sure you take your prenatals and keep hydrated. there are some days when i don't want to eat anything, but i do. nothing is appealing to me right now. but i find something and i eat it. FOR MY BABY! when you become pregnant, it's not about you anymore. remember that.
oh, and you you been to your doctor??? your OB is the first person you should be talking to about all of this...not strangers on a website.
babies are a precious gift...the most important thing you will ever have.
you need to eat. you're pregnant! there are going to be food that you don't like right now, but that will go away afterwards. you can't expect your body to stay the same. all the stuff you love...yogurt and fruit and milk...EAT IT! those are some of the best things you can eat for your baby.
if you're having morning sickness, eat small meals OFTEN instead on larger meals once or twice a day! don't just stop eating. make sure you take your prenatals and keep hydrated. there are some days when i don't want to eat anything, but i do. nothing is appealing to me right now. but i find something and i eat it. FOR MY BABY! when you become pregnant, it's not about you anymore. remember that.
oh, and you you been to your doctor??? your OB is the first person you should be talking to about all of this...not strangers on a website.
I hav'nt noticed this posting until today. Obviousely it's been going on for a few days now. And to tell you the truth, its a horrible line of comments. It brought me to tears to see how ruthless and judgmental you women can be. I never asked for this. I never asked to be critisized, judged, hurt, made inferior, or emberissed. I ask for some advice under several different areas. You're right, I wont accept the help that has been offered, because I feel that SOMEDAY, things WILL get better. I am a true believer in faith, and I have that faith that James WILL be the wonderful man and father that he intends on. Do you think an alcoholic LIKES being an alcoholic? No. But its the 'holic' in them that is hard to get rid of. Wether its a workaholic, chocoholic, drug addict, an eating disorder, or compulisve eating. If you analize it, an addiction is always bad, and hurts everyone around them. He's agreed to counseling. Thats the first step. It's not too late.
I said that I wont bring up our relationship, but I feel so cornered I feel that I have to. My sole-humanself is being torn appart in this forum about my relationhsip, and now, about my health and credibility of being a good mother? I take care of my body, it gets everything it needs, and the nutrtion advice I ASKED FOR really helped out. And I WILL be a wonderful mother. Damn you for saying I wont! You have no right.
So.. "countrymama" decided to belittle me and go about posting specifically TO ME in what would become the most demening, hurtful, judgmental comments I have ever read. Not to mention accusing another woman who was sticking up for me, and not throwing me under the bus like the rest of you, as pretending to be me? She's the only one here who has a heart. What is wrong with you all? Why dont you read this page over, and over, and over like I have, and truely see how nasty you are, and try to feel how your words can really hurt someone. You're like a pack of coyotes picking at something until there's nothing left.
I said that I wont bring up our relationship, but I feel so cornered I feel that I have to. My sole-humanself is being torn appart in this forum about my relationhsip, and now, about my health and credibility of being a good mother? I take care of my body, it gets everything it needs, and the nutrtion advice I ASKED FOR really helped out. And I WILL be a wonderful mother. Damn you for saying I wont! You have no right.
So.. "countrymama" decided to belittle me and go about posting specifically TO ME in what would become the most demening, hurtful, judgmental comments I have ever read. Not to mention accusing another woman who was sticking up for me, and not throwing me under the bus like the rest of you, as pretending to be me? She's the only one here who has a heart. What is wrong with you all? Why dont you read this page over, and over, and over like I have, and truely see how nasty you are, and try to feel how your words can really hurt someone. You're like a pack of coyotes picking at something until there's nothing left.
thank you. i appreciate what you said.
it's not the jenni situation that got to me, it was SOMEONE else harpin' on me. someone who i DID NOT address, and i don't feel that she had any right to say to me what she did. yes, everyone has their own opinions, but when they are not addressed towards you, i don't think there is any reason to attack that person.
i wish only the best for jenni and i sincerely hope that she figures things out before anything bad can happen to her or her precious baby.
it's not the jenni situation that got to me, it was SOMEONE else harpin' on me. someone who i DID NOT address, and i don't feel that she had any right to say to me what she did. yes, everyone has their own opinions, but when they are not addressed towards you, i don't think there is any reason to attack that person.
i wish only the best for jenni and i sincerely hope that she figures things out before anything bad can happen to her or her precious baby.
Can i just empasise that i respect u alot for standing behind your opions and making them clear..
also that i do in fact appreciate any advice u have given me in the past.. as long as you havent discouraged any members in this forum then i think its safe to say that ur presence is widly adored...
dont allow others to affect u in anyway.. u seem like a nice person so dont get worked up too much about the 'jenni' situation...
:)
also that i do in fact appreciate any advice u have given me in the past.. as long as you havent discouraged any members in this forum then i think its safe to say that ur presence is widly adored...
dont allow others to affect u in anyway.. u seem like a nice person so dont get worked up too much about the 'jenni' situation...
:)
i have a life too other than being on the computer. i have 3 children that get home from school at 4pm and they are my life. i am NOT jenni, why would you ladies asume i was? because i said that i might be her friend? i am not a real friend i dont know her, everyone needs friends, maybe down the road i could be a friend from afar. country mama im sorry if i snapped, but all of you ladies have snapped at jenni at one point or another.
my name states every one gets a second chance because i believe evryone should get 1. i myself was given a second chance at life and i am living it to the fullest.
my name states every one gets a second chance because i believe evryone should get 1. i myself was given a second chance at life and i am living it to the fullest.
I believe she was able to be aggressive because she was hiding behind a mask, so to speak. The, "What if she's a friend of mine?" really gave it away. Plus we all know how often she is on here and she has also gotten in the habit of giving advice to others. Since 2ndChance showed up, Jenni has been conveniently absent. And 2ndChance has taken over Jenni's role of giving advice. I won't be eating my hat or anything else. I am certain they are one in the same.
And kjsk, I know you have invested so much time and energy, not to mention emotion into this girl, but you are doing the right thing to just concentrate on you for a change! Don't let her bring you down.
--J
And kjsk, I know you have invested so much time and energy, not to mention emotion into this girl, but you are doing the right thing to just concentrate on you for a change! Don't let her bring you down.
--J
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