hey yall...i went and saw a doctor and he said id heal just fine and everything will be ok. thanks for your support and adivce! i just was alittle freaked out and its nice to have people to talk about it with
Brief reminder- vaginas heal QUITE WELL after CHILD BIRTH. Relax woman...get your lube, your birth control and intructions for your partner.
Like the other post, you need to see a doctor to examine you. Wounds in that area are sometimes hard to heal (wetness, location, etc.). Also, being your first time, you may want to think about using some type of lubrication to help. And please, make sure you are using some type of protection.
look in your phone book to see if you have a planned parenthood nearby. they can examine you, and also help you take care of birth control and STD prevention. good luck.