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thinking of terminating pregnancy, advice?

so i recently found out i was pregnant, december 30th. i know who the father is, i discussed with him the situation. Neither of us are in a good spot to be able to take care of a baby. I myself am already a single mother to a 2 year old, yes i make decent money, but i love being able to spoil my son. the guy dooes not have a steady job, nor does he want the responsibility of being a father. i do not want to have an abortion but i feel like its probably the right thing to do. ive already raised one boy by myself, and i dont think its fair to my son that he only has one parent. im on the fence of what i want to do, im trying to keep myself happy, and the father happy. what should i do? also any advice on the whole termination process would be nice.

AGAIN PLEASE NO JUDGEMENTAL COMMENTS!!!
I NEED SUPPORT NOT DOWNGRADES!

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Honestly, if you are spiritual.. God wouldn't give you more than you can handle. Things happen for a reason and I feel as if you should keep the baby. Things may seen unclear right now but I'm telling you that things will get better. Just please hear me out. Don't do it. That may seem like the easy way but down the road you may regret it. I hope this helps.
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I agree , If your having doubts, please reconsider. I had on years back and I regret it every day, I now have 6 wonderful sons. But in the end it's your choice
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