He is 25, never done this as a child. Was raised in a clean home. I recently had to remove the carpet due to flies and maggots being in his room. He has a full time job, a girlfriend, showers daily, cares about his appearance, drives a brand new car. But his room is disgusting. I have also found different sexual looking devices and lubes. I believe he is putting things in his butt and wearing girl clothes in his room as well. Help!?