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Worried about condoms and finger cut.
Hello. Sorry for the long message. I had sex with a sex worker in a red light area last night, India. She puts one condom on my penis and then another one. Vaginal sex for some time. No ejaculation. We changed position and vaginal sex again for some time. No ejaculation. Some handjob with condoms between changing positions without ejaculation. I asked her to give me handjob after this while both condoms on. No ejaculation. She said may be due to 2 condoms I cant feel. She removed one condom again handjob but no ejaculation. I gave up and she removed the condom. All this time she handled the condom. Putting on and removing. I was kissing her. I did not pay much attention on the condoms. Just made sure they did not slip as I lost some erection while vaginal sex by touching the base. They did not slip. The room was dark. I did not see the condom much. I am now worried thinking were my condoms intact or did they break. I dint even ejaculate in condom to make sure they were intact. This is eating me up. Also I had a small fresh cut on finger with little blood and fingered her. I even sucked the nipples.
I am not sexually active and do not have many intercourses even protected. Last time I did it was in 2018 and was paranoid in the same way and was here.
Please help me and advice my risk and do I need to test? Thank you.
I am not sexually active and do not have many intercourses even protected. Last time I did it was in 2018 and was paranoid in the same way and was here.
Please help me and advice my risk and do I need to test? Thank you.
Rest easy. This was not a risk for HIV. One condom is all that is necessary by the way and experts say to ONLY use one condom. But you used a condom none the less, so were protected. Only the tip of your penis needs to be protected and it was. The ONLY risks for HIV are to have unprotected vaginal or anal sex or share IV needles to inject drugs. Air inactivates the virus. A cut on your finger when fingering is NO risk at all. You can't get hiv from fingering. So, you had no risk at all.
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Thank you so much. I dint see the condoms but sure they were on penis. She removed both as stated. I was looking at her and room was dark. I was in hurry. I should have checked the condoms if they broke. Do you think I am still safe? I am really sorry for this but I know you will understand me...
If a condom fails it rips down the seam and the ring makes it hard to take off, so both of you would know if that happened. It is time to move on from your imaginary fears that something went wrong.
Thank you very much. I dont require any testing right?
Only test if you are in the habit of testing for imaginary diseases.
Thank you so much for helping me. God bless you.
Really thank you AnxiousNoMore and GuitarRox...
You are very welcome
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