Dear Jennifer,
There is no single answer to your question. In part, it depends on insurance, in part it depends on resources in yoiur area.
If you have insurance, find out about the mental health benefit and how to access it. Your pediatrician might be a good source for a referral.
If you have a local child guidance clinic or mental health association, such agencies can either offer the help directly or guide you to a resource. In addition, the support personnel at your child's school might have an idea for you.
How can I find a child behavioral health clinician that I can start working on this issue with in my area?
Dear Jennifer,
There's no simple way to know if your daugter's behavior is within the normal spectrum. One thing to examine is if the behavior in question is an isolated phenomenon, or one example of a genral pattern of behavior. Another factor to consider is the extent of the behavior across settings - i.e., does she do this only at home, or in other places as well.
You'll need to figure out what need she is trying to fulfill by this behavior. Some children who feel they are 'deprived' in some manner take things rather indiscriminately. Others do so because they lack a certain aspect of moral development and pay attention only to pleasure-seeking or gratification of their needs, regardless of the implications. You might consider having a conversation about this with a child behavioral health clinician. That person can help you decide if an evaluation is warranted.