Hello, and thanks so much for offering this service.
A two-part Q...
First, over the last few winters, I was getting vry very dry skin - kind of all over, but in my armpits in particular, where patches of smooth brownish skin had formed and then gone away when the temp improved (might have also occured with less prevalence on my hips - where it was also dry). I never treated it; it just itched some and i scratched it. Then this past year, the brown turned more red and was less smooth than it was more like extremely dry skin, and persisted thru the summer. It didn't really go away at all. It's itched a couple-few times per day for months. I finally went to the doctor/general prac. recently. They tested and there was no fungus present, and the doc said he thinks it is eczema. He gave me a cream to use twice daily. In only two days the redness had dicipated greatly under my arms. I'm hoping at this rate that it just goes away entirely. Fact is tho, for a long time the area down in my groin (anus, area between anus and scrotum) has been itchy at times too. It's never been more than a nuisance, nver debilitating - just quite itchy. I guess everywhere from my hips, to legs, to back of ears gets pretty dry in the winter. Admittedly, til very recently, I never did anyting to help myself.
I would not be worried about this, if I had not read up a bit on seborrheic dermatitis and learned that it can be a sign of an underlying case of HIV. This of course effected me. (I know SD is mostly a scalp/dandruff thing but it can affect armpits/groin/behind ears as well, per what I've been reading.) I guess what I'm asking is, does what I have sound like SD and not just eczema? And if so, how often is SD a sign of HIV?
Sorry for melding all of this into one post. Fact is, the only risky behavior I've had in the last 10 years were two separate regrettable instances with strippers about two years ago. In one instance I briefly received oral sex - while wearing a condom - and in the other "fingered" one for about 15 seconds (no apparent cuts on my fingers.) From all that I've read on transmission, these are apparently low-risk events. Am I reaching, in tying these events to possible HIV, and thinking that if I have SD, it could be an underlying sign?
I would like to get married soon, but don't want to put my fiancee at risk. Thanks again.