Husband says he'll leave?

[IrmaJean45]

Hi, recently I got married and on our honeymoon he informed me that if I go to the bathroom  (pee or poop) or pass gas in our new house he will leave me as that is not acceptable to him. He says 7 Eleven in down the street.  Im so shocked because he never brought this up before we were married...we didn't live together. I honestly don't know what to do as we don't believe in divorce or annulment and he says it's normal for this situation to occur and he said just nobody talks about it.

[AnnieBrooke]

I would have pooped in the toilet in the usual way and let that package of craziness go right ahead and leave.

Are you all right and are you away yet?  Worried.

[Eviedechant]

Please update us asap. Im really concerned about your safty. Id like to know if you were able to get away? Ill come get you if you  need help..just please don't stay.

[luccky15081979]

hi honey..sorry to hear about what you are experiencing. my opinion is that your husband may have some kind of mental health problem,,like o.c.d{which I have myself and have also made similar demands...it could be a fear of contamination you using the toilet to do these completley natural actions we all do it including your husband,and then him using the toiet after you and fearing he may become contaminated by using the same toilrt or breathing in your gas,, this is not normal behaviour by any manner of means and don't feed into his irrational behaviour by agreeing that it is,this will not help him or you,,stay strong and try and seek help

[crazymamaof4]

This is unbelievable, and totally not normal. You have got to leave this man. Religion has got to take a backseat to your well being. This man is sick. If you are afraid your friends and family will not like your decision to leave this man tell them what he is asking and doing to you.  I guarantee they will understand then. Please do not stay with this man.

[Cidnee2727]

Run! dont just walk away from this relationship!  This is no way to live and it will only get worse.. There are worse things in life than divorce and this is way up there!

[Ajh22]

Why would you think that he loves you asking such an insane thing of you? Oh and for his mom she knows exactly what her son is all about sick!!! Run do not walk Run from both these horrible sick I can't even call them people I don't know what to call them but I do know if you don't leave in a big hurry n never look back your life will be ruined forever. Oh and btw he was looking for the worst way that he could think of to disrespect you and treduce you as a human being you know like a dog that has to go outside to relieve himself. If u accept that kind of horrific treatment then you are accepting to wear the leash also  cause after all you would be enabling him to treat you like an animal. I can't help thinking that if you didn't run as soon as he gave you those orders where have you been doing your business??