what do i do? the abuse is worse than ever

[savannah25]

hello, i usually dont do this but im stuck.. I see a cycle that is not slowing down i recently was married and all was good, now im getting treated like a dog literally. most are gonna say call the cops well already been there! He has his pull and gets a slap on the wrist and he is the one whom calls the cops after he puts his hands on me. I am 9 months pregnant last night was the worse night ever, it started when he got off of work , started about dinner it wasnt good enough apparently, then he heard that i had went to visit my mom earlier that day, that led to him holding me by my hair and screaming in my face (WHO IS HE?) OER AND OVER AND SHAKING ME. HE STOPPED STARTED CALLING ME A ***** AND AS I WAS GOING OUT THE DOOR TO GET OUT BEFORE IT GOT WORSE HE GRABBED ME AGAIN AND I FELL, I TRIED TO GET UP AND HE KNOCKED ME BACK TO THE FLOOR AND WAS IN MY FACE AGAIN SQUEEZING MY NOSE HOLDING MY MOUTH CLOSED, JUST WILD EYED THATS WHAT I REMEMBER THE MOST I TRIED TO SAY UR HURTING ME! AND HE WOULDNT LISTEN HE TOOK ME BY MY HAIR OUTSIDE THIS IS ABOUT 11:00 P.M KNOCKED ME TO THE GROUND AND SPIT ON ME , WENT INTO THE HOUSE AND I HEARD LOTS OF CRASHING THINGS BEING BROKEN SO I STARTED TO RUN OUR DRIVE WAY IS 2 MILES LONG SO I JUST WALKED . HERE HE COMES WITH MY BABY DAUGHTER TELLING ME IF I DID NOT GET IN THE CAR THEN HE WOULD TAKE HER AND LEAVE AND ID NEER SEE HER AGAIN ,SO I GOT IN THE CAR CAME BACK HOME, HE SAID COME IN I CAME IN I FOLLOWED HIM DOWN THE HALL TO THE MAIN BEDROOM AND AS I STARTED TO WALK INTO THE ROOM HE SLAMMED THE DOOR SO HARD AND FAST I DIDDNT SEE IT COMING IT HIT MY STOMACHE, I DROPPED  TO MY KNEES WAITING FOR THE WORSE TO HAPPEN , I KNEW HE WAS GONNA KILL ME IF I WAS BLEEDING BECAUSE THATS PRISON NOT A SLAP ON THE WRIST! HE SCREAMED AND STARTED CRYING AND HELPED ME TO MY FEET AND MADE ME LAY DOWN, CHECKED ME AND SAID WE R GOIN TO HOSPITAL, THEN RAVED ABOUT GOING TO JAIL AND STARTED TO PACE I CLOSED MY EYES IN SO MUCH FEAR AND THE PAIN WAS SETTING IN, FROM 3 HOURS OF THE CRAP, PULLING MY HAIR OUT IS ONE THING SLAPPING ME IS ANOTHER BUT THIS DOOR IS VERY HEAVY FRENCH DOOR, WE DID NOT GO TO HOSPITAL HE CALLED HIS SISTER SHE HAPPENS TO BE A NURSE AND TOLD HER I FELL DOWN AGAIN BECAUSE I HAVE HAD DIZZY SPELLS FOR THE PAST 2 WEEKS, SHE KNEW HE WAS LYING BUT, IM STUCK AND I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO HE TOOK BANK CARDS AND CREDIT CARDS AND MY KEYS TO MY VEHICLE, THOUGHT HE DISCONNECTED THE INTERNET BUT IM NOT AS STUPID AS HE THINKS I AM. LAST SEPT 6 WAS THE SAME BUT NOTHING THIS BAD HE MADE IT UP WITH LOTS OF FLOWERS AND GIFTS AND I BELIEVED HE WAS SORRY, SEPT 6 IS MY BIRTHDAY AND OUR ANNIVERSARY :( I HATE THAT DAY SO BAD, I AM SO TIRED, AND IM ALONE NO ONE KNOWS WHAT IM DEALING WITH , I REALLY DONT! IM NOT SCARED ANY MORE ID DO ANYTHING FOR A PEACE OF MIND AND A SAFE PLACE TO TAKE MY DAUGHTER ANYTHING! I PRAY SO MUCH WILL IT EVER END?

[allmymarbles]

I am curious. Since you have access to a computer you are in a fine position to get help.  Why haven't you tried.

[margypops]

We are all on the same page here savannha Just leave..... someone will help you .sit on the Door step of the police dept .........

[allmymarbles]

But what happens if he is not taken into custody? Will he kill her? She has to get away. Once she is safely hidden, then she can take legal action.

[margypops]

You have to think of the child you are carrying and the one you have they will also, there are places to go to in every city I suggest you  go, dont over think it... just go .

[RockRose]

You need to tell your OB about this.  They are mandatory reporters for child abuse,  and you need to make it clear that you have one daughter in an abusive household and now another baby who will be in this household.  Try to act as calm as you can,  but communicate that your children are in an abusive household.  

[Robinbiswas86]

Your husband is mental, thats what the problem is!!! You need to consult with a doctor about your husband's condition. How was his childhood, his family background is important. The way he acts with you is a result of sudden mood swings....maybe he has split personality or something.... but whatever it is he is definetely not normal and you are putting your and your daughter's life in danger. You need to either consult with a doctor regarding his behaviour patterns or you need to call 911 and call police which will result in very deep consequences and will lead your family life to disaster. You can also imform this to your family and his, but I dont think this will solve any problem, but you can try!!!!

[allmymarbles]

The first thing I can think of is take your baby and run. But you need money and he has taken everything. Is there someone who can hide you out until you can make arrangements to get to a battered women's shelter?