domestic violence

[Kailynsmom]

My bf has become so angry lately to the point where we actually fight. I don't knew what to do I ask him to leave threatened to call the police and he want leave. I have laid here crying the last hour because we had a fight he choked me telling me he would kill me I don't know what to do or how to get him out of my house it ha happened to many times and I'm tired I don't need to bee stressing and pregnant. Just been stressed and depressed I need help

[allmymarbles]

When violence, or the threat of violence is involved, your best help is from the police. Once they safely remove him you can go about leaving. Your best bet might be a battered women's shelter.

[Kailynsmom]

Thank you all for the advice I would have more to say but I'm still shaken up from it but I really thank everyone for their post

[sep28]

Really sorry to hear that. But like a what all the other ladies said you hsve to make sure you and that baby are safe hsve you thought if getting a restraining order? Iv seen this firsthand with my ccousin they would fight in front of therr chiled n he would bite his nails till thy bleed  he wss so scared .she didnt listen to any one aboutleaving the abuses and got her chiled taken away.

[britt423]

I had to call someone to come get me and to supervise me getting my things from MY apartment, just so i could get away from my babies father. It was really hard bcuz i thought i loved him, i had to give up all contact. Make sure you get your most valuable things bcuz he can steal them to get back at you for leaving. If you have nobody to call, you need to call the police and they'll take you to a womens shelter and they'll get him out of your house. You need to get out, like now.

[LadyBeeley]

Dont make empty threats. Do it and get you and your BABY safe or else just know you will probably be signing your babys death certificate BBC staying with a man like that. If youre fine with that risk then dont change a thing.

[mrsonens]

I could never imagine what ur going thru!  But u don't have to put up with it, my advise is to call police! If ur worried what he may do then just stay in one room till they arrive n don't tell him uv called them! Sorry I don't have any better advise to offer, take action girl! No one deserves what uv been through, best wishes

[abbb01]

Dont just threaten to call the cops call them! No one should be laying hands on u especially pregnant! If it's ur place u should have every right to have him removed and charges pressed. Take care of urself and baby sounds like he won't

[songbird711]

I'm sorry to hear this is happening to you no one deserves that. I was in a abusive relationship years ago when I was a teen he was 5 years older than me. You just got to get out. It won't stop and only gets worse. When you get and chance call the police they will take him to jail when they get there but will probably be in for just and day. When he's in jail get a restraining order and stay away from him. If he's not scared to do that when your pregnant he won't be scared to do it when baby is here and no child needs to grow up in a abusive home. Plus he could do damage to the child while your pregnant by choking you because no oxygen is getting to the baby. I wish the best of luck to you but my advice isn't much use if you stand back and let him abuse you and your child. Only you can do something about it many women won't leave because they think this is their life now but it's not it could be different it's your choice.