how does anyone lve through

[snowpatrol]

emotional, mental and physical (bashing) abuse?

i feel like theres no escape, i think maybre the suicide thing was the only way

[ifitendznAL]

how long have you been with this person and how long do you feel this abuse has been going on? does he hit you? control who u see or speak too? how long have you been together and when did the abuse start? Suicide is the last and incorrect solution, there are ways out of it and before you give up as marg stated, let us help, without reaching out its impossible to help or try to the person in need. You have begun by posting....remember suicide is toughest on the ones you leave behind so not sure who is in your life but you may want to think about how that option devastates the ones who love you when you get to that place in your head.

[margypops]

There is always a way through, if someone is abusing you perhaps you have to reach out for help, I know thats not easy ,you have made a start by coming here ,no one has to take it there are ways through , can you tell us your story or as Confused362 has said send a PM we have other pespectives ,many are helped by seeing there are other ways through.I am sorry this is happening to you, come let us help ....marg

[Confused362]

Hi there, I feel the exact same as you at the moment! I have been in a very abusive relationship where he was physical on one occastion and very emotionall abusive as well as very forceful in the bedroom. Im am out of it about 8 months now but suffering from what happened to me. I am very down so spoke to my doctor and he was great. i told him everything and he said I should talk about it. I have been in counselling for a bit now but I have not opened up about what happened to me to anyone until this past weekend.

I think maybe you need to seek help too, aparently we can live after all this we just need to resolve some issues and emotions!!

If you need to talk you can PM me .. Hope you are ok!!

Confused..

[snowpatrol]

I DONT THINK IMEVER GOING TO GET OUT OF THIS SITUATION

[snowpatrol]

edit: *live through