why did my husband become so mean?

[msbattle]

I was with my husband for three years. He never did much of anything but bring problems in my life. Me and my kids would go hungry for food. And because he change could hardly come outside. Me moved to were I had a feeling it wasn goin to be rite. He had friends that lived here for years I feel they truned him into this man I never knew. Now he used to beat me throw me and has put me in the hospital. I have a pfa on him for three years. Now he's runing around getting gurls pergant now with no were to life just wants to mess up my new relationship from me. And we have a child together but the state don't want him around her at all wat else could I do since the state dosen do much. Could I do to make sure he stays away forever.

[Nighthawk61]

I will be praying for you that you get to move back home with your family. You're kids really need to be near your family. Is the guy that your with now able to move down south ? I hope so, because it sounds like it would be best for you and the kids.

[msbattle]

Thank for for that message. I am tryin to move back home down south with my family. So that me and the kids are safe and happy. And I pray that the guy I'm with now that knows all I been. Threw cause him and his mom seen it all. That he dosent change. He is a wondeerful guy who cares a lot about me and the kids.

[Nighthawk61]

Leaving the state might help, you could still collect child support i would think under the circumstances. I'm glad that welfare is trying to get child support from him.You can get a cheap divorce by doing the papers yourself, it doesn't cost very much. You could save up 10 dollars a month do to it. It would do you good, plus it would be very helpful if you happen to meet a man worthy of you and your child. I will be praying that you meet some one new who will be a good husband and father for your child. God Bless you!!1 Keep posting for support.

[msbattle]

I'm not divorced completely I don't have the money for it. And I'm on welfare so they are goin to push it. But I don't think pittsbrugh has that one law were if u have prove that u was cheated on uer divorce would be cheaper. Its my first time being married so I don't even know were to start

[specialmom]

So, are you officially divorced?  If so, you can suggest he pays child support.  He sounds like the kind of person that if this is pushed (child support that he pays) he may just say goodbye.  

Otherwise, a restraining order in which you call EVERY time you see him getting near you.  Do you have one of those?