The bank: No.....I have this majorly intense superhero core of justice/right and wrong, so the guilt of it would kill me....I could not do it....although I need the money badly, and I know I probably get ripped off by the damned system....hmmm...I wouldn't tell though, if a family member did it....and I'd probably spend the money, but I would feel guilty all the time....
The spouse: No way.....I have always told my husband, that there is NO need for cheating. If at any time he wants to do someone else, by all means, tell me, and I'll set him free, and I'd give him the same courtesy.....
The DOC: Hmmmm.....Well, I may be the only one to answer this way...and I'm not sure what it says about me, but I'm just being totally honest here...I MIGHT take 'em......I have awful pain all the time that greatly affects my life....so, that being said, even with the bad that comes with them.....I'd be awful tempted to use 'em....
1: no
2: did that 20 something years ago with my now ex NEVER AGAIN...I still live with the
guilt and see what it did to my kids..though life is starting to turn out well for them..but
never again..an office fling that turned serious (for me anyway and she said it was for
her)...to quote Eric Burden..."she was brown and I was pretty green".
3. No. Yes. No....yes..no...yes...hell, I don't know.
Am I a bad person..no. (re question 2)..just got caught up in something I shouldn't have..my wife and I spent a lot of energy with my oldest son who was always in trouble and had no energy for each other..into work comes a woman who smiles at me and talks and listens to me..next thing you know..well..went on for 4 years or so even after my divorce..she was living with a guy she was going to leave for me..I believed it..
I did something so out of character for me that I hate myself for it and will never forgive msyelf for it.
Jim
and sorry, I missed this. Am i a bad person? nah, just a human one.
peace
ray
1. YES
2. NO... unless Tony Romo, or the New Kids on the Block were involved... :)
3. NO.
am I a bad person? probably in some ways.
1. YES.. but, I would rather rob all those Wall St CEO's that walked away with all that money.
2. n/a
3. Tempting but NO, yes, no, hummm, NO, NO, No
No.
No.
No.
Is someone a bad person for answering yes to any of those questions. I don't necessarily think so. We're all at different places in our lives at different times. So, no, I think most people are good or try to be.