I came across this site while I was looking around. I've been looking for people to talk to that actually know what I'm going through. I am 28 years old and I'm still recovering from back surgery. I had to have 2 discs replaced and a metal rod inserted to hold my spine upright. I had my surgery on October 12th of 2006 and I am still currently seeing a pain management doctor. I have been prescribed Oxycontin 20mg (3x a day), Flexeril 10mg (3x a day), and Lunesta (to help me sleep). The Lunesta was just added a couple months ago, but I have been taking the Oxycontin and Flexeril for almost a year now. I had no problems other than some memory loss up until a month or so ago. Now, I find myself very depressed. I cry all the time and since my doctor added the Lunesta, I have horrible nightmares every night. I start arguments, I get highly emotional, and I cry at the drop of a hat...all for basically no reason. I have a 6 year old son and he has been staying with my mother for the past year or so because I was incapable of caring for him after the surgery. Now it's time for himto start school again and my fiancee keeps telling me that I need to take care of my son, but my mother is trying to convince me that I'm not ready yet. They pull me in different directions so often. I am sooo stressed out and I was recently put on blood pressure medication which I believe was directly attributed to my stress level. Just talking on the phone with my mother 2 nights ago stressed me so badly, I had to be taken to the emergency room, passed out when I got there, and when I woke up the doctors told me I passed out because my blood pressure was 199/97. Sometimes it feels like these two try to convince me what's best for me, but shouldn't I be able to do that? Even on the medication, I function fine, except for the occasional lapse in memory. Not to mention, the stress, on more than one occasion, has caused me to take one more Oxycontin a day than I should. I have had many thoughts of suicide, but I keep telling myself it's just the medication making me feel this way, but I'm not 100% sure that I won't feel this way after I'm off the medication. I'm scared. It's like I don't know how to handle life anymore other than medicated. Please help me.