hymenactomy

[nima7945]

hi, iam 27 years old female  i just got married  a week ago and iam virgin and iam aslo circumcised. iam scared and tarified of having sex! i need an advise weather i should get a hymenactomy done or not. i tried to face my fears but its  been difficult doing that! help please!

[allmymarbles]

Actually it doesn't have to hurst at all. I had no pain whatsoever.

[nima7945]

yes iam afriad it  will hurt, i also feel like i can't breath and my body starts to shake!

[allmymarbles]

What is frightening to you about sex? Do you find it repulsive? Are you afraid it will hurt? Do you dislike men? Apparently there is no physical obstacle.

[nima7945]

hello bridgeti, i recently went to my doctor and i was told my hymen is open and that i only had minor circumcision. even tho i was reasured by my doctor that i can have  an iintercorse with my husband iam still frightned. i tried  so many times, and every time we are  so close i panic.  i donknow what to do, its been close to months since i have been married and i can not have sex. any advice?

[Bridget A. Hewitt, RN]

Hi and thanks for using the forum.

I just want to be clear, did you have a female circumcision done?  With a female circumcision, the clitoris is often removed and the labial skin is stitched together, leaving only a tiny opening for urination and for menstruation.  I am not sure if this is what you are referring to.   Could you clarify?

Bridget