Dear concerned in Texas, Without benefit of physical examination and ability to ask questions it is difficult to advise. In general, a lump that is changing in size should be evaluated.
You may have to pay for the mammogram yourself but it will be worth it in the long run to give you some answers.
Insist upon a mammogram and /or ultrasound. Breast cancer in someone Thirty is rare but not impossible.
Remember it is YOUR life not the doctor's. It is ALWAYS better to be safe than sorry.