I would personally I would talk to one more ongologist, but stick to one and do what they suggest.
Dear chelle_belle: There is no absolute correct way to approach breast cancer treatment. Certain factors about the tumor may help to direct aspects of therapy, such as whether the tumor is HER2 positive or Estrogen and Progesterone receptor positivity, but these do not dictate the exact treatment regimen. An MRI may or may not clarify the appearance of the liver lesion (it may increase or decrease suspicion) but it will not be absolute. The only way to know for certain is to biopsy and this may or may not be advised depending on your situation. Without evaluation, we cannot determine what regimen we would recommend. If you are not comfortable with either option, consider a third opinion, preferably with an oncologist who specializes in breast cancer. These are often affiliated with large academic medical centers.