Thank you very much Blessedsoulforever for your feedback and insight. I will try to find someone who can help me.
Hi,
The lymph node enlargement could be due to any kind of infection,viral or bacterial.Blood work could throw some light on that.Any cancer will spread through the lymphnodes and cause an inflammation,don't delay, consult an oncologist he can help you in overcoming your problem.
A Pilonidal cyst is seen at the bottom of the tailbone(coccyx).This lump on your back should be related to the other symptoms you have mentioned.
Goodluck.